Worried heart & sick husband

Well as I never depend on any man or woman for help, I have been living this all my life. My plan is to try to keep healthy as much as I can as that is the only way I am going to survive the street because the way things are looking, that is where I am heading..once again. I wish you the best..being so isolated out there and property to take care of must be terrifying to think of. I hope your Hubby picks up again. And yes you must have a plan..cant be just letting all this go til the last minute..you'll be with no help whatsoever.

i thought it was just a cold for him but now i sense it's something more serious. you have that talk with him so you can ease your heart and mind. sorry it's troubling you

Being prepared is the first step or knowing you need to be prepared. Have that talk. Make a plan. List everything you need to do and start crossing things off that list. You will have it all done in a couple of months! Try to rest your mind and praying your hubby doesn't have any kind of serious condition.

Make a list of all the things you ave to do and start crossing them off one by one. Sorry about y our hubby and pup

I would say cross the birdge when it comes and live one day at a time.

I feel for you, truly. It's not an easy time at all. I don't know if there is any advice I CAN give, because I am not in your shoes living it or having to deal with it. I do know that in life I always made sure to try to protect and shield myself from the unknowns, or catastrophic things, especially when it comes to money. I'd rather be overprepared than underprepared. But that's not how everyone is, and not how it always goes. I guess what I am saying is I have never been an "I'll cross that bridge when I get to it," kind of guy. That being said, we all encounter bridges eventually that have to be crossed, and many are ones we are afraid to cross unsure of what awaits us on the other end of it. At least if you have fear, it gives you an edge to be better prepared for whatever comes next, and an opportunity to work out some of the details sooner rather than later. Perhaps start working out things on paper so you can actually visualize what things might look like financially, or how you may handle them. Go and get your driver's license now so you have it when you need it and aren't scrambling when it's the final hour. I also think a talk with your husband is a good idea. Put things into a real sense together so that both of you are fully aware of what may come and start working now to set things up in a way that they aren't leaving anyone behind in peril. All the best to you.

I hope you get it all worked out for the best.

Try to do everything you can to prepare. Go on and get your drivers license now. I understand your concerns.

Find the courage to beat them