An annoying habit!

@Fleura (31031)
United Kingdom
February 24, 2025 6:54am CST
I was just listening to a radio programme, on the topic of the fate of cities dealing with industrial decline. The presenter was in discussion with a couple of authors who had written books on the subject. The first had described the rise and fall of the city of Liverpool, once the second largest city in Britain and the most important port in the world. The history was very interesting but the speaker was rather distracting because he said ‘Er’ .. ‘Um’… so many times during his discourse. At first it didn’t seem so bad as he just got into his stride but then when it went on and on and he didn’t stop doing it, it got rather irritating. Little One remarked on it as well so then I was curious and had to go back to listen to him again. In the course of 10 minutes (during which the presenter/ interviewer naturally spoke some of the time) the author said ‘Er’ or ‘Um’ (sometimes immediately one after the other) at least 100 times. I tallied 101 but undoubtedly missed a few when they came so fast I couldn’t keep up! I wonder if the poor chap listened to the programme afterwards? If so I hope he took it as an incentive to work on his presentation skills The picture shows the radio I remember my mother listening to when I was a child. All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2025.
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@JudyEv (346762)
• Rockingham, Australia
4h
And then there are those that say 'you know' every second sentence although that's probably more a trend with individuals, not presenters. Once you notice it, you can't help noticing it, you know?
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@Fleura (31031)
• United Kingdom
3h
Or sometimes they say 'Yes, no' at the start of a reply! (when they don't really mean either yes or no!)
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@BarBaraPrz (48622)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3h
@Fleura I have a friend who is always adding, "right?" at the end of a sentence, to which I usually answer, "Is it?" or "How would I know?" just to let her know it's annoying.
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@Tampa_girl7 (51531)
• United States
3h
That would be very distracting to me. Love the radio.
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@BarBaraPrz (48622)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3h
So, yes, no, I mean, it's just a filler, until their mouth catches up to their thoughts, right? Very annoying.
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@DaddyEvil (141979)
• United States
26s
Smarty pants!
@wolfgirl569 (111904)
• Marion, Ohio
2h
That makes people not pay attention
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@Kandae11 (55808)
2h
The poor guy could be a good writer but is at a loss when speaking in public.
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@Fleura (31031)
• United Kingdom
1h
I know, he really needs to practice and listen back to a recording!
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• India
1h
Definitely an interesting topic to listen to. I totally understand how the “ER” and “Um” fillers can be super distracting , especially when it is constantly repeated. It’s amazing how fate of cities like Liverpool can be tied to industrial changed, but then the speaker’s verbal habits too the shine from the content. I cannot imagine how you managed to tally the 101 of them in just 10 minutes. I hope the author does listen back and work on his speech delivery and help to make sure the message never loses its shine. How something small like that can completely shift the focus and even if the subject is interesting needs to be noticed. Enjoy the time!
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@Fleura (31031)
• United Kingdom
59m
It was a shame as he was obviously knowledgeable and interesting but it did detract from what he was saying!
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• India
47m
@Fleura Very True!
@DaddyEvil (141979)
• United States
1m
That happens with some people when their thoughts are either slower than their mouth or faster than their mouth as they think about the next point they want to make in the conversation/presentation. I do it sometimes when writing here... I'm trying to think of the next thing I want to write. My fingers are faster than my thoughts.