Handsome and Nice
By lilacskies
@lilacskies (7682)
United States
March 3, 2025 10:41pm CST
The owner of the nightclub I will be working at is handsome and nice. This is a sentence I never thought I would be able to say about anyone. I've met my share of handsome men, but there were never nice, but this man? I was shocked. He is both handsome and nice. I didn't feel any creepy vibes from him at all like I did with the previous owner of the nightclub when I worked for two years from 2018 to 2020.
And he's super young too. The previous owner was in his 50s. This one is only 35-ish. Maybe even younger. Obviously I didn't ask him his age. That would've been awkward. I'm going to slowly get to know him over time anyway.
Is it weird that I am curious about him? I find myself thinking about him often since meeting him. And no, this is not a crush. I am not attracted to him. I just admire him and want to be like him. I want to be a leader like him one day because there's one more thing I noticed about him during our interactions. He is an introvert like me. Despite being an introvert, he is a leader and that impresses me. More on this in the future as I get to know him better.
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. I will always be present he he.
@arunima25 (89237)
• Bangalore, India
8h
That's a very wrong notion. There is one personality trait called introvert extrovert. These people are not social butterflies or extrovert in normal sense. But they are very good with their wonderful articulation and delivery when needed. They don't talk much but are impactful in the little that do. And most introverts are great observers. These kind of people make the best leaders. We have plenty of examples around.
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@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
10h
I won't even post my own picture. Why would I post his picture? Lol!
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@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
10h
I am not attracted to him. Thank you though.
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@celticeagle (172006)
• Boise, Idaho
6h
Don't tell me you're going to have a crush on your boss? I'm just kidding. Do you have the job? Introverts can be deep thinkers so he may make a good boss. I hope so.
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@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
50m
Lol! No, I don't. Yes, I was hired yesterday. I start working today. I hope so too.
@arunima25 (89237)
• Bangalore, India
8h
Not all attractions need to be a romantic one. We are attracted to people for various reasons and their various traits that might be fascinating for us. I am happy about your new job. It sounds good..I am wishing you all the best. I hope that you enjoy your work and build a good rapport with your boss 
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@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
8h
Thank you so much. Hopefully the other members who commented on this post and claimed that I have a crush on him will read your thoughtful comment. Thank you so much. I hope so too. I start my first shift tomorrow. I need a stable income so this is going to help a lot!
@grenery8 (14056)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
5h
congrats on your hiring and i understand your admiration. i admired some men like that too. not on a professional field but in shop or at the street, by unintentional eavesdropping. this last st valentine's day, i saw a really handsome man in a store but i didn't hear his voice. tall, black hair, mysterious and with focused look on the groceries, ah. 
I hope you'll have a good relationship with this owner, finger crossed with everything
I hope you'll have a good relationship with this owner, finger crossed with everything2 people like this
@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
47m
Thank you so much! I appreciate it. Haha Yes, I notice handsome men all the time, but I've never noticed one that is nice too. They all tend to be jerks and acting like they are better than everyone. Thank you so much! Me too!
@2ndchances24 (9987)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
5h
I'd be careful about getting too close, things have a way of
changing over time, even if your not attracted to him.
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@lilacskies (7682)
• United States
49m
Don't worry. I will keep my professional distance as usual. I don't date anyone. I like my single life just fine.
