Weird encounter

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Kenya
March 10, 2025 4:58am CST
I met a man 4 days ago. I didn't tell him yes to marriage since I want to date first. We were to have out first date yesterday. He never honored his time took around 2hours late. I canceled the date and went to see a friend. The guy insulted me so much via the phone.i told him no I can't date him and he doesn't deserve a second chance. He's weird, narcissistic,immature. Gosh, I'm just wondering how some people just feel entitled.. That was my Sunday, did you have a good weekend?. What are your thoughts about this weird guy in question?
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@porwest (98984)
• United States
10 Mar
I am trying to wrap my head around why you would have agreed to a date in the first place after the guy proposed BEFORE even meeting you. That would have been my FIRST red flag. lol
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• Kenya
10 Mar
I thought so too but it escalated I had planned to tell him on his face that it's no for me since the first day meeting I didn't lile how he even talked
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@porwest (98984)
• United States
10 Mar
@Laurakemunto Seems like you dodged a bullet. lol
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• Kenya
10 Mar
@porwest and am very glad about it. I just wonder why some people are just aggressive, hurt, manipulative and can't take rejection in a positive manner
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@JordanLader (5825)
• Sparta, Tennessee
10 Mar
I'd probably do the same thing you did just with a lot of attitude. I've never been one to tolerate being disrespected especially when I didn't do anything the other person did. My weekend was great. A lot of fire department stuff and a structure fire.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Yes I was to give him my peace of mind physically but lol the guy is not a human being
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@allknowing (143741)
• India
10 Mar
My week end was good Had left overs and so no cooking
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• Kenya
10 Mar
That's nice I wish you a blessed new week
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@DaddyEvil (145797)
• United States
10 Mar
He proposed before your first date? Run, don't walk, run the other way!
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@DaddyEvil (145797)
• United States
10 Mar
@Laurakemunto There is something wrong with him. I'm glad you aren't looking back.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Yes it's so weird and am glad never looking back
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• Kenya
13 Mar
@DaddyEvil yea very true I'm never looking back
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@rakski (135383)
• Philippines
10 Mar
What a weekend you have! Good thing you just go your way.
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@rakski (135383)
• Philippines
11 Mar
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• Kenya
11 Mar
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Am glad I had too.
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• United States
10 Mar
I think you were smart to not get involved with this guy. Sounds like he would have made a terrible partner
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• Kenya
10 Mar
Very right you can imagine even the way he's talking just aggressive and talking bad of his fellow workers whom I don't even know
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@snowy22315 (187792)
• United States
15 Mar
Last weekend was OK. You are definitely better off without strange dude. You probably dodged a bullet.
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• Kenya
16 Mar
You are very right about that
@Orson_Kart (7274)
• United Kingdom
25 Mar
Is this someone you’ve been in an online relationship? Asking you to marry him after 4 days is a bit quick. I think you’ve had a lucky escape if he then abused you on the phone. Good luck with your next venture into the world of love!
@jstory07 (143285)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Mar
That man sounds like a jerk you are better off without him.
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• Kenya
13 Mar
I agree with you some people are just so indifferent
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@wolfgirl569 (114512)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Mar
I would not have agreed to a date at all.
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• Kenya
10 Mar
He's more than weird
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13 Mar
thanks laura for sharing the experience . for what good quality did you find in that person? Sometimes if people are rude there is no point spending more time with them
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• Kenya
13 Mar
That's why I declined everything to do with him for my peace of mind
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Mar
I'm sorry dear fellow Kenyan friend. You did well cancelling the date. Is not fair to make you wait that long. Sorry you were insulted. At least you now know how he is when he is angry.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Mar
@Laurakemunto Maybe you should pray about it.
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• Kenya
19 Mar
@mildredtabitha very true God is all powerful
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• Kenya
18 Mar
Very right many people usually think just giving a chance means you loose yourself or they feel entitled I hate that
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@grenery8 (15764)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
11 Mar
unless he was saving his or other people's lives, he doesn't deserve a chance. really sorry.
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• Kenya
13 Mar
True I did put a capital fullstop.
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• Kenya
14 Mar
@grenery8 sm trusting the universe to us locate each other soon
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@grenery8 (15764)
• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Mar
@Laurakemunto and with right. some better person should walk into your wife.
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