Do You Really Fire Someone Like This???

@porwest (97870)
United States
March 24, 2025 4:46pm CST
I have been around firing people for a very long time, although these days of course, I am retired. So, I've seen people being fired many times, and have been involved in the decision-making process and the act of firing people as well. Including in my last job, although in that one I was simply a "witness," which was required by company policy, although I did offer input on at least two occasions. What stood out in my last job was the way people were fired, which, I have to say, was one of the strangest, most peculiar ways I have ever seen it done. During my 10 years with the company, I witnessed at least 5 people fired, and they were all done the same exact way. The boss went to the individual and simply said, "We have decided to make some changes, and you are not part of them." I am not even sure where this ever came from. Was it learned? Was it how the manager before him did it and he just copied it? I mean, what is that exactly? Have you ever heard of someone being fired this way? Does it seem strange to you to do it this way? What are your thoughts, here. I am very curious to know. Most of the time it's done by simply saying, after perhaps some explanation, "I am sorry, but we unfortunately must let you go," or "Effective immediately, we are terminating your employment," or even simply, "You're fired." But never, "We have decided to make some changes, and you are not part of them." Not only does it seem rather cold to me. It's just weird.
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@kareng (71060)
• United States
25 Mar
I agree it is way out there and not the normal way of firing someone. And, yes, it does sound cold!
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@porwest (97870)
• United States
23h
It has to be one of the oddest choice of words I have ever seen to fire someone. The first time I heard it, it REALLY stood out. lol
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@kareng (71060)
• United States
9h
@porwest I agree with that and would also be bewildered!
@1creekgirl (43032)
• United States
21h
It's almost enough to make the employee wonder if they're actually being fired or?
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@porwest (97870)
• United States
Just now
Yeah, it just always struck me as rather strange.
@Tampa_girl7 (52167)
• United States
22h
Yes, that is a super weird way to fire someone. I might even prefer them saying hit the road Jack. At least I’d have a fun song in my head.
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@porwest (97870)
• United States
Just now
lol. Right? I'd like to know where he ever came up with that. I guess I could have asked him.
@Deepizzaguy (107990)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
24 Mar
I have heard of sports stars and field bosses being let go since the company boss says something to the effect "There have been a change in plans." or "We are going in another direction."
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@porwest (97870)
• United States
25 Mar
Those phrases, that I could see in a different context, would be something I might expect. But not just by themself with nothing more said before or after.
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@NJChicaa (122035)
• United States
25 Mar
Yeah that is strange. I wonder if a lawyer came up with that phrase.
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@porwest (97870)
• United States
25 Mar
I very highly doubt it. Either way, I have never heard someone fired this way. I just thought of it after it came up when my dad was visiting during one of our conversations. lol.
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• United States
14h
I've had to fire many people and learned to NEVER say "I'm sorry, but . . you're fired" because it indicates that you're doing something wrong that you should feel sorry for. I would say, "You're being terminated, effective immediately, I'll help you gather your things and see you out the door."
@DaddyEvil (144092)
• United States
24 Mar
I agree, that is a weird way to fire somebody... Although, I did once see/hear a boss scream at a guy that he was the worst worker they'd ever had and he was fired... That boss was terminated shortly after the ex-employee had reported the way he was fired to the main office. The GM showed up and asked me if I'd seen/heard what had happened. I explained what I'd seen and heard and the GM stepped into the boss's office and told him he was no longer needed.
@lovebuglena (45862)
• Staten Island, New York
22h
It sounds unprofessional to me to say that. Does the boss have to say he/she is sorry when firing someone? I don’t know. They probably aren’t sorry lol. I wouldn’t like to hear You’re fired. Unfortunately, we must let you go sounds much better.