3/29/25 - Meals
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (185345)
United States
March 30, 2025 3:53am CST
With all the thinking I've been doing, trying to figure out the beneficiaries for my insurance policy, bank account and investment account, I forgot about the house!!! It would be perfect for my husband's 3rd cousin -- she and her husband have 2 boys and 2 large pitbulls. This is a 4-bedroom house. She lives in a tiny little house right now. I have about 3/4 of an acre fenced in; and all you have to do to let the dogs out is open the back slider. My husband's 2nd cousin has done more for me lately; but it would be a lot for her to maintain, and she only has a small Pomeranian. Things to think about!!!
Still dealing with my emotions. Being an adult is such a bummer!
Breakfast - PB&J sandwich
Lunch - Meals on Wheels (from Friday) - Fish sandwich, seasoned potato wedges, peas and grapes
Dessert/Snack - Chocolate chip muffin
Dinner - Turkey/cheddar sandwich and Cheetos
What did you eat yesterday?
Photo Credit: Pixabay
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17 responses
@wolfgirl569 (113722)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Mar
We are leaving everything to the kids with it ordered to be sold and the money split.
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@wolfgirl569 (113722)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Mar
@LindaOHio I know you don't. Go by who seems to care about you.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
I don't have any children...and limited relatives.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
8h
@wolfgirl569 The problem with my husband's 2nd cousin is that she is very critical of everything that I do; and she's very blunt. She says she loves me; but she has a weird way of showing it!!!!
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@id_peace (15334)
• Singapore
30 Mar
Lucky for me, to figure all the beneficiaries are easy but to remember what are the things that I had missed out are difficult.
Yesterday Breakfast - I had congee and Dim Sum
Yesterday Lunch - None. My breakfast was too filling
Yesterday dinner - Vegetable, Braised Chicken Wings, and Steam Red Grouper in Hong Kong Style, plus rice and soup
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@sallypup (63385)
• Centralia, Washington
18h
@LindaOHio Difficult choices to make.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
Just being my friend is plenty for me! Yes, we decided no more dogs. I miss them, especially now that I'm alone; but it doesn't make sense to get more at this stage of life.
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@porwest (98541)
• United States
30 Mar
If you need a beneficiary, I spell my last name B-A-U-E-R, there's a junior on the end, and my real first name is James. 
For dinner I made up another batch of braised pork steaks with that Jack Link's bloody Mary mix and had loaded baked potatoes and sliced carrots on the side. Good eats!
For dinner I made up another batch of braised pork steaks with that Jack Link's bloody Mary mix and had loaded baked potatoes and sliced carrots on the side. Good eats!3 people like this
@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
Ha ha. Would you want to come live in the s**w belt?
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@porwest (98541)
• United States
31 Mar
@LindaOHio Been there, done that when I lived in Wisconsin. I've had enough of it. lol
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@MommyOfEli2013 (84702)
• Rupert, Idaho
30 Mar
The house is important....that is true. Hope it all gets figured out.
My grandparents house still needs dealt with, and they passed away in 2023.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
Yeah, I wondered about that. Is someone going to sell it?
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@MommyOfEli2013 (84702)
• Rupert, Idaho
31 Mar
@LindaOHio I am sure eventually my uncle will get to it. He's had someone appraise it....
At this point my mom, and my family go do our laundry over there still... and look after the house.
Was hoping we'd be able to move in, but my grandmother never actually changed the will to saying the house would go to my mom, she was going to rent it to us since she didn't want to move from her home.
But the original will said she just got first choice to buy it for whatever it was appraised at. So eventually it'll be sold to some stranger :(
Sorry, didn't mean for the long reply
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@FourWalls (72870)
• United States
30 Mar
Yesterday was the chicken and cheese-stuffed baked potato for lunch, chicken & rice & potatoes for dinner, with fiber, apples, and yogurt.
One day I’ll have to sit down with my niece and ask her if she wants the house or the money. I’m still using both at the present, but she’s the one who’ll be stuck with either living in my house or selling it.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
I hadn't planned on leaving so much to one person; but it makes the most sense.
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@lovebuglena (45769)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Mar
You want to leave the house to them?
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
To my husband's 3rd cousin. It's her husband, 2 boys and 2 pitbulls in a really small house.
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@Deepizzaguy (108042)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
31 Mar
Potpie and spaghetti for dinner.
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@Deepizzaguy (108042)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
21h
@LindaOHio I will do my best to enjoy my day.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
I have so many adult things to do this year that it's quite tiring.
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@kareng (71352)
• United States
19h
Adulting is so over-rated. We have been dealing with getting my husband's Medicare all set up and the secondary insurance which we both have through the State of Louisiana from our employment there. It's all a bunch of hokey. No two people tell you the same thing and it is back and forth. And fun, fun, fun. I get to do it all over again for myself.
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@LindaOHio (185345)
• United States
31 Mar
This will be my last will...that's why it's so difficult to decide on everything.
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