4/5/25 - Meals
By LindaOH
@LindaOHio (186102)
United States
April 6, 2025 12:27am CST
Last night was a rough one. I spent a lot of time crying over my husband and his indiscretions. I prayed to God, hoping that my husband will be in Heaven and that we can be together again. Being a widow sucks big time.
I hope you have a good day.
Breakfast - Protein bar
Lunch - Buffalo chicken/cheddar sandwich and Cheetos
Dessert/Snack - Blueberry muffin
Dinner - PB&J sandwich and Cheetos
What did you eat yesterday?
Photo Credit: Pixabay
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18 responses
@DaddyEvil (145321)
• United States
6 Apr
I ate a bowl of rolled oats with almond milk and a tablespoon of sugar for breakfast, a slice of Mexican lasagna for lunch and a sausage, egg and cheese croissant with some steamed and spiced broccoli for supper.2 people like this
@DaddyEvil (145321)
• United States
6 Apr
@LindaOHio I added powdered garlic, pepper and a touch of salt to it. 
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@Michellekidwell (29557)
• Sonora, California
6 Apr
Praying for you! Saturday I made some Japanese style noodles, with veggies and eggs, for Lunch grilled cheese, and for a snack a Banana and half a rice crispies treat!
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@kareng (72011)
• United States
6 Apr
Hopefully, time will help heal your heart.
I fixed a roast, with carrots and mushrooms yesterday. Instead of cooking potatoes in with the roast, I made a potato salad to go with it all. For breakfast we had an omelet with green onions, sausage and cheese in it. No lunch.
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@kareng (72011)
• United States
7 Apr
@LindaOHio My hubby enjoyed it. I bought a smaller roast. He doesn't care for leftover roast, even if I turn it into stew for leftovers. We both had dinner and he went back several hours later and sliced some more beef and made a sandwich. There wasn't very much left at all!
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
7 Apr
Yes, it will take a while. Your meals sound good.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
7 Apr
Thank you, Anna, It's tough losing your best friend.
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@LadyDuck (472710)
• Switzerland
8 Apr
@LindaOHio I am sure it is, I feel sad just thinking that my husband could go before I do.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
8 Apr
@LadyDuck Even though I had a year without him, I still had hopes that he might come home.
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@lovebuglena (45889)
• Staten Island, New York
6 Apr
It’s definitely hard being a widow. My dad’s been gone since May 2022 and it’s still hard on my mom, especially when she’s at a gathering and is the only one without a husband.
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@lovebuglena (45889)
• Staten Island, New York
7 Apr
@LindaOHio A It’s great when you are best friends with your hubby and can’t talk to him about anything.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
8 Apr
@lovebuglena Yes. I don't like being alone. I wish I could find some male companionship!!!
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
7 Apr
My husband was my best friend. I miss telling him things that I see and experience.
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@porwest (98860)
• United States
7 Apr
Indiscretions are something you really never talked about before he passed away, but surely they seem to be weighing heavy on you more now than ever before. I hope you can see past them. It won't solve anything to dwell on them, of course.
For dinner, I made baked barbecue pork steaks and we had baked potatoes and buttered peas on the side. Yummy stuff.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
8 Apr
I have forgiven him; but it's hard to get closure when I can't confront him. We had 58 years together; and I can't discount all the good times we had. I think his affairs lasted a year and a half.
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@porwest (98860)
• United States
8 Apr
@LindaOHio Affairs are a hard thing to deal with. I know all too well about that. My dad was never a faithful man. My mom put up with it for years and would have probably put up with it forever, but he finally ended the marriage and divorced her.
In recent years, especially right before he went in for his triple bypass and after, while he has not come right out and said it, I think he finally realizes he made a huge mistake.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
9 Apr
@porwest Unfortunately your father realized his mistake much too late. I hope my husband asked for forgiveness, otherwise I won't see him again where he is!!!!!!!
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@GardenGerty (162989)
• United States
7 Apr
Yesterday for breakfast hubby made us ham and cheese omelettes. Noon was leftovers from Friday--me chicken salad, him frozen pizza. Last night he made these huge sandwiches on Italian bread. Cold cuts and provolone cheese. I will pray that your heart will begin to heal.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
7 Apr
That all sounds good. Healing will take time. I had a dream the other night that I was screaming at him. He deserved it!!
@Juliaacv (52947)
• Canada
8 Apr
@LindaOHio You are very blessed to have been married to both the love of your life as well as your best friend for the majority of your life. Many never get that.
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@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
9 Apr
@Juliaacv Yes, the good times outweighed the bad; and he ended up coming back to me after he strayed.
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@RasmaSandra (83737)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 Apr
now you gave me a much needed laugh by just saying Being a widow sucks big time. I have been one for eight years and it still seems like all that happened just yesterday SIGH Anyway finished off the chicken wings, had seasoned fries, then ice cream sandwich,1 person likes this
@Deepizzaguy (108401)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
7 Apr
@LindaOHio I did enjoy my week since my relatives were able to replace the damaged smart television last night.
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@MommyOfEli2013 (84800)
• Rupert, Idaho
6 Apr
I am sorry to hear that. I wish I knew what to say...
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@FourWalls (73316)
• United States
6 Apr
I’m so sorry you’re having a rough time right now. 
Yesterday was another day at home, eating hash browns and chicken & cheese sandwiches for lunch and chicken veggie rice soup for dinner. Plus apples and yogurt and fiber.
Yesterday was another day at home, eating hash browns and chicken & cheese sandwiches for lunch and chicken veggie rice soup for dinner. Plus apples and yogurt and fiber.1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (186102)
• United States
7 Apr
It's still so raw and new. I lost my best friend.
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