Your Partner has a Drinking Problem, Where do you Draw the Line??

Yes, leave your partner. If your partner is in denial of a drinking problem, it will ruin your life. You cannot change another person, you cannot control another person, you cannot force another person to allow you to help them, and you cannot save someone from themself. If there's children involved, then its double-yes, get out with the kids.

No body can help someone if they do not want help. Leaving is a big decision, especially if children are involved. Each situation is different. However, if that person is abusive, and won't help themselves, then I think leaving would be a good idea.

Try to help and if it doesn't work, get help for him.

i do not think leaving them like that would be a good decision in your part, it would be better to somehow to convince them about the ill effects of drinking.

if you have tried and tried the help them and they refused, sometimes leaving is the best answer to maintain your on sanity and health.

If you have tried to get your partner to stop drinking on several occassions, and they have refused. Get out. It's not worth your time and effort any longer. If your partner really loves you, then they would try to slow down the drinking, or stop drinking altogether. If they realize that you mean business after you leave, and they can control their drinking problem, then maybe getting back together will work. If not, their loss. You don't need this problem in your life.

i will try again and again to persuade them to seek professional help but i will end the relationship immediately if he's abusive (physically/verbally) when he's drunk

I will also give him support

Mine no!! And I hope never!!!!

You should probably leave them, wasting your time trying to change people doesn't work. They will only change if they want to change.

i thinking leaving is the only option...

Yes, i would leave them. Especially If I already had a kid because I wouldn't want two! Its also not good for a drunk to be around your child. Drunks can be very mean at times. Your child will end up thinking thats how things are supposed to be! I should know because my dad was a drunk and we went through alot having him live with us. Its like they are totally different people when they are drunk. The police will probably be a regular at your home. So if that is how you want your life to be then go for it but if not then leave him or her. Take it from someone who knows they won't change you are just wasting your time.