Bullies

you are absolutely right,the best way is to make the bully realise wht he is doing is wrong and the moment he understands that wht he did was wrong........he is no more a bully......a single speech could change the world and he's just mentally hurt bully.Give a bully a chance to solve his mistakes.

i agree, my son was recently bullied at school by 4 boys, he went to the teacher, she told him to go to the classroom to get away from them, he went to the principal he told him to ignore them, i could not believe how they reponded to his concerns, he told me that he didnt want to go to school and could he change schools. he was in tears because of this. it broke my heart. so i went to the parents house of the main bully, the mother was so discusted with her son, she made her son ring my son while i was standing there to say sorry and that it would never happen again, he has his computer taken off him and was told to wait until dad hears about it. and im happy to say that from then on he left my son alone. i think she is a good mum. on another note, there are all different reasons as to why someone becomes a bully, and when you are young you dont really understand what damage they are doing to that person. i sadly confess i was a bully at high school, the people i picked on did nothing wrong to me, but i made there life hell for awhile until i found someone new to hassle. i only picked on people because i was bullied by my father, i guess it was my way to rebel and to let go of the hurt i was feeling, i regret the tears ahd hurt i caused people, it should never of happened. i am ashamed of what i did, but back then i treated people the way i was treated, now i treat people the way i want to be treated. i have changed the cycle and would never treat my kids with the abuse i had. i hate the fact that because i was bullied, i became the bully. so please before you say that you dont like bullies, think about why they are that way. it could be the only life they know. well for me it was. but i know it does not make it right. and i am truly sorry. and changed.

Bullies might be physically very strong but they are mentally very weak.........if ur a smart person like-me and not a muscular tall person then you should exploit a bullies mental weaknesses........never fight a bully yourself......coz he's gonna damage you more then your gonna damage him......but i u still find tht bully is gonna beat u up no matter wht u try......try making a friend who can beat him up....or stay in a group......these are my personal experiences and till this date i havent been bullied or beaten up.....i hope this post would help u out a bit."MENTAL STRENGTH IS BIGGER THAN PHYSICAL STRENGTH".