cklm4nz

@cklm4nz (71)

New Zealand • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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what do you say to your kids that was said to you as a child?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 12 Aug 07

do you say things to your kids that your parents said to you when you were a youngster? i cant say that i do.... i used to get, 'stop your crying or i will give you something to cry about' and 'i brought you into this world and i...

childhood

kids

parents

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met anyone famous?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 25 Jul 07

have you met someone famous? do you know anyone famous? if so how did they treat you? if you havent who would you like to meet?

celebritys

people

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whats great about where you live???

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 25 Jul 07

what part of the world do you live in? what keeps you living there? if you had the chance would you move for a fresh start? whats the best thing about your town/city to make others move there?

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cklm4nz where would you move to? the other side of the world?

25 Jul 07

who do you put first???

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 25 Jul 07

if you were put in a situation/friendship/relationship that was not making you happy would you leave?? if they needed you for support, would you put yourself first or stay to help knowing that they would not cope without you and...

depression

helping

support

whats great about where you live???

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 25 Jul 07

what part of the world do you live in? what keeps you living there? if you had the chance would you move for a fresh start? whats the best thing about your town/city to make others move there?

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i am a surport person for someone, it is so challenging,

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 2 Apr 07

i have been with my partner for two and a half years and two years of that i have been his support person, everyone else turned there backs, when he was not on meds or not taking them properly i found it so hard, the voices he...

mental illness

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Do you think its really worth it to stay active in mylot?

heatspine @heatspine (1141) • Philippines 17 Mar 07

I think this is a very valid question. Do you think its really worth it to stay active and continuously post here in mylot? Maybe its time to step back and see what mylot provides us. Yes, it pays out but remember that there are...

worth it

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cklm4nz are the days gone that you do something just for the fun of it? Does money always have to be involved? i cometo this site only to help people with there questions or to get advice if i need it......WHATS WRONG WITH OUR WORLD???????? GREEDY GREEDY GREEDY. its...

17 Mar 07

when did you last do a good deed?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 14 Dec 06

would you go out of your way to help someone you dont know? do you believe that for every good thing you do a good thing will happen to you? what is something good that you have done for someone you dont know?? if you never have...

child birth....OUCH

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 14 Dec 06

did you have pain killers or did you feel the whole experience?? i went drug free. 36 hours for the first and 16 hours for the second. How many others went drug free, describe how you felt?

WHY, whats the point?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 14 Dec 06

why do so many people go to war?? would you?? if so how could you live with yourself knowing you took someones son, father, brother, daughter, mother etc... does killing people and detroying cities solve anything? turn the table...

When was the hardest time in your life

_hope_ @_hope_ (3902) • Australia 13 Dec 06

I really don`t know my own answer to this one yet My childhood wasn`t pretty with lots of abuse which still haunts me today. My working years were so lonely living away from everyone. Married life was good for a while, then...

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cklm4nz I think most of our lives are hard, ther always seems to be a hurdle thrown in amongst the good times. my childhood was hard, as well has my teens and it has followed me into my adult years, but i think the one thing that really sticks out for me would be the...

14 Dec 06

have you experienced a mental illness?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 2 Nov 06

i am a support person to someone with a mental illness, i find it very hard sometimes, they have been sick for over a year now, at times it really brings me down. i sometimes feel like i need a support person, if you support...

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have you lost a brother or sister to suicide?

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 2 Nov 06

my sister took her own life, i dont know how it makes me feel, angry, sad, lost, i always ask....why would she do that, things always get better, is she ok now? did she really mean to do it or was it a mistake. i am an only child...

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pipebands

cklm4nz @cklm4nz (71) • New Zealand 2 Nov 06

i am a side drummer in a pipeband, in new zealand, does anyone here play the pipes or drums? if so, what country and how long have you played for? also what got you started?

drumming

hobbies

music

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What celebrity would you sleep with?

del251nyu @del251nyu (212) • United States 2 Nov 06

Everyone, even those in relationships, have a celbrity that they would love to sleep with. I would have to pick J Lo. Which celbrity would you sleep with?

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cklm4nz i would have to say wentworth from prison break. he is beautiful, all his features are perfect. what a babe

2 Nov 06

What is Your Weirdest Pregnancy Craving?

Children_first_921 @Children_first_921 (135) • United States 2 Nov 06

When I was pregnant I actually had a craving to eat soap!

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cklm4nz i hope u didnt eat the soap, i cant imagine that would be nice, when i was pregnant with my son i used to drink 2 litres of chocolate milk a day. not good for the figure thou. once he was born i didnt touch chocolate milk for a very long time. i dont think i...

2 Nov 06

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Most Beautiful actress??

dhirajtvm @dhirajtvm (424) • India 15 Sep 06

Who in your opinion is the most beautiful actress ever? My choice would be marilyn monroe...

most beautiful actress

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cklm4nz angelina jolie, she has the most stunning eyes and lips.

24 Sep 06

What is the Gas Price where you live at ?

deblrd2002 @deblrd2002 (85) • United States 15 Sep 06

Mine is 2.28 a gallon at the moment

gas prices

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cklm4nz in new zealand its just starting to go down, thank goodness, it was $1.82 a litre, now it $1.60. it would cost me about $120 to fill my tank now, but two years ago it only cost$70 to fill.

16 Sep 06

Sooo, where is everyone from?

wendysue44 @wendysue44 (350) • United States 14 Sep 06

I am always interested in learning about new places. Can you share where you are from and a bit about your home area? I am from...

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cklm4nz im from new zealand, i live in the south island in a city called christchurch. new zealand has around 4 million people now, i think christchurch has around 500,000. i like our city, the beach is 5 mins from my house and town is about ten mins the op direction....

16 Sep 06

Irritating People

sherinek @sherinek (3320) • United States 15 Sep 06

How do you deal with people who irritate you. There are instances that you have to put up with people whom you dont like at all. I come a

people

relationships

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cklm4nz either dont be around that situation, but if u have to be, be polite, nothing is gained by being rude, it will bring you to there level. what i do is except them for who they are, not everyone is normal like me.{ha ha} u may annoy them as much as they annoy...

15 Sep 06