Is it okay to talk to ex's?

My girlfriend still talks to one ex, and was forced to talk to another a few months back. I don't mind because I know she's not going back with them or anything like that. I think she gets a bit bothered when I try to impress my ex-fling. So I'll try not to mention her or see her. Which will be easy since my ex is so far away.

Thats funny.... didnt you just tell me you didnt do that and havent talked to them in forever... hmm maybe you should show brandon this, instead of calling me a liar.... really good start.

I am sure there are feeling for this ex to some extint if you had a relationship with them to begin with. If you are friends with this person you should get this person around your fiance so he could get to know him as well. That could be difficult if your fiance is unwilling. It is better to explain your fiances feeling to the ex and hope they would be a good enough friend to understand. I think alot of people are uneasy because of the intimate aspects of relationships. Does it bother you when he speaks to his ex's or talks about them?

if it ended up on a mutual basis, then i think it's ok to keep in touch with exes. maybe you should reassure your fiancee that he shouldnt feel threatened at all, as he's the one you love now.

it is okay with me for ex's to speak with each other. after all, they once were best of friends right. when people put no malice to it, then it is ok.

so jealous.... please dont do that my dear wife

i guess not, if you're secure enough in the love your bf has for you. but, personally, i don't like it at all. i'm the jealous type and my husband sure knows that!

as long as your fiance is comfortable with you talking with them I think it is okay as long as the ex understands that you are only friends now and things have changed. I'm sure there will be times when your fiance could be jealous but that will be your duty to keeping the relationship strong and making sure he doesn't feel threatend by any relationship you could have with either gender of friends. It doesn't bother me I often talk about the relationship as a possitive part of my husbands life. It enabled him to find me because they ended the relationship and he is a better person now. He He He...

I wouldn't feel threatened if he doesn't give me any reason to doubt him. I'm saying this because my present bf is, for me, fails to show me actions that can prove his love to me. I think if only he would be more demonstrative then the stuff about him talking to his exes (especially his ex that he's a lovechild with)would mean nothing to me.

I still bump into my ex once in a while in our old high school because we go to the concerts there. He's still a good friend to me and after what we shared, it's hard not to give him a long hug and have long and open conversations. My current boyfriend of 3 years knows, but he also knows that I love him and there's no way I'd leave him. So he understands and doesn't feel threatened at all. It helps if you talk about it to your boyfriend/fiance and let him know how you feel about your exes. If he feels threatened, then maybe he's a little insecure about your relationship? Congrats on the marriage!

This depends allot on the circumstances aroud the cause for them being X's....For me..no! Not the least bit interest in even seeing her again!

My rule is as follows. If you slept with them, you can not be friends with them anymore. I think that it's wrong to have contact with any ex. They are an ex for a reason. They are apart of the past and that is where they should stay. If there are no children involved then there is no reason to speak to an ex.

I do talk to myex at times, and i know that it bothers my new bf althugh he doesn´t tell me. I do not speak to my ex because i want to - it is just that he owns me alot of money and i am trying to get them back!

its ok if you dont have your new lover, or if you have your new lover, ask permission but what for?

i guess not, if you're secure enough in the love your bf has for you. but, personally, i don't like it at all. i'm the jealous type and my husband sure knows that!

i guess not, if you're secure enough in the love your bf has for you. but, personally, i don't like it at all. i'm the jealous type and my husband sure knows that!

I wouldn't want my husband to talk to his exes! I would definitely feel threatened and it would bother me. To me, it's disrespectful! :) I am very lucky to not have to worry about this. :) He does not have any exes calling nor does he have any girls calling him.

feel a little awkward talking to my ex but still do sometimes