Do you completely beleive anyone? I never beleive anyone wholly

India
December 3, 2006 9:40am CST
Because I saw many people who cheated me as I beleived them , we can beleive our enemies but not our friends , this is what I learnt in my life,I got cheated by my friends step by step, I cut thier relationships,now I am lonely, Did you had anyone who cheated you who is closer with you? , What is your mind state at that time?
6 responses
@askshivam (478)
• India
3 Dec 06
lion - sher
never got cheated in life, but ppl do lies on net. that way got fooled or cheated 2 3 times.
• India
3 Dec 06
It is very rare that you are not cheated in life, thank you, but internet cheating is common.
@cNotable (891)
• United States
6 Dec 06
true-interner cheating is very common unfortunately.
• Romania
3 Dec 06
I were deceived chummy,too, by beloved, and just my own family. I Know that is very grievous, but be due to forgive. Tolerance is our chance. Must to forgive. But to are vigilant!
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• India
3 Dec 06
i forgave them many times, really for about thousand times, but they crossed the limits, so cut them altogether, but i really have true friends.
@cNotable (891)
• United States
6 Dec 06
Really, you don't. I understand what you are saying--even friends sometimes have alterior motives. But try to trust people--it's easier.
@cloud_one (375)
• India
5 Dec 06
i got cheated by many friends and by friends i mean very close friends.. i was so broke,so scattered at that time,no body supported me.. i think the only person u can trust with ur life in this world is ur parents,,they will never betray u... i stopped trusting anyone from then.. sometimes i feel very bad abt it..
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@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
There is no reason for us not to believe anyone. I mean, all of us lie sometimes. All of us get to disappoint someone by saying things we don't mean sometimes...but would we feel good if people choose not to trust us anymore just because we can't always tell them the truth or because we've done something that hurt them? Trust is not something that's hard to give. We just have to choose who to give it to. Because not all people deserves to be trusted. That's the only thing we need to keep in mind. About your friends who cheated on you, maybe they didn't really mean to do it. They might have just chosen to do it because they're stuck in a situation. I mean, they need to be given a chance. Have you tried talking to them or you just gave up on them the moment you realised they cheated on you? Everyone deserves another chance. If a friend consistently did something to you then maybe that's the time you must not trust them anymore.
• India
13 Jan 07
i tend to believe anyone and everyone wholly if they are saying it with full sincerity, but that is not always good and i have suffered sometimes because of this habit of mine.