I wanted to know whether marriage is neccessary

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@nithila30 (1423)
India
December 3, 2006 10:47pm CST
Hai please say me whether marriage is necessary.I think that now i am happy being single and i also dont have much responsibilites to care about.I am leading a freedom life with my family and friends.If i get married i feel that i miss them all so post your replies as what do you think about my opinion.
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@iluvujoy (311)
• Philippines
4 Dec 06
Marriage will result to family - Girl + Boy = Marriage and it will soon create a family.
Marriage is a holy sacrament and it is necessary for two lovers to become one and be united by God. It will strengthen the relationship of two individual. It is good to be single if you can handle it but it is also good if you have a partner that will go through your life
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Fine thanky my friend for your sweet responce.Have a nice day
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@rikpallav (1242)
• India
4 Dec 06
I would like to ssay in response to your discussion that, marraige is not a necessary, however in some society they does not accept a couple living together without any socity approved relations.. like husband and wife...else you can live in as lovers and friends for ever...however after some time... you will realize that you need to get in to a formal relataionship for many reason to come and taking some life decissions
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Yeah your right.I am also thinking about it.Thanx have a nice day
@wathanjim (2214)
• United States
5 Dec 06
No I wouldnt say it is necessary
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
6 Dec 06
Why do u think like that any specific reason you have like what i think
@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
4 Dec 06
It is an interesting Puzzle .Those who are out want to get in .Those who are in want to get out. Once you get in it is difficult to get out. once you got out it is digfficult to get in second time. Of those who got in second time very few are happy for rest of their life.Some rare people do get in and out even 8 times. But that requires wealth and fame.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Hey dude what ur trying to say totally u have confused me(lols)just kidding.Ur right life is filled puzzles to solve it which makes our life intersting.I belive so
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
Hey i am serious ........
@kendi10 (1032)
• India
4 Dec 06
Family - Family
hi i think its neccessary, who told u that u lost ur freedom see most of the people think like this but truth is marriages have created a person so responseable and having the careing nature and for the women they are giving birth for the humans,u told that u r leading a freedom life with my family. How the families becomes through the marriages.No u wont miss anybody and definitely u have the caring nature for ur family ok so dont be afraid for this .....I am not advising for u just a word from ur friend...
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Oh fine thanx a lot for sharing ur opinion here.You may be right with the responce.Let me think about.Have a nice day
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@kendi10 (1032)
• India
4 Dec 06
ok thank u
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• India
4 Dec 06
It's not necessary unless you want to be marry. It's whatever you believe in and how you feel about it.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Right dude.keep posting your response.Have a nice day
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
7 Dec 06
Thanky for ur respoce sonalika .Nice to meet you.Have a nice day
@SONALIKA (573)
• India
5 Dec 06
i agree to pawan,marriage isn't necessary until n unless u feel like being with someone or would like to commit to somebody for ur whole life
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• India
4 Dec 06
I think marraige is necessary.It is a part of our life
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
Fine Thanky.Have a Nice day
@haxor111 (2231)
• India
5 Dec 06
yes marriage is necessary
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
Can u put up with ur reasons plz
@desincity (1276)
• India
4 Dec 06
Marriage is necessary for many reasons. But if you believe that it is not needed anyway, it is alright. Don' get married if you are not yet ready. ENjoy your life first before getting married.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
Sure i will .................
@Bhutto (741)
• India
4 Dec 06
I don't think so,i feel both girl and boy should be single as long as they can and enjoy life with quality.Once they are finished they can think about marriage.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
So tell me what is that limit for finised
@rms2727 (815)
• India
4 Dec 06
I guess that's a personal matter and will depend from person to person. it depends on your psychology analog many other factors. though I am also not married but I feel sometimes you need to have a close partner with who you can share your happiness and your worries, and for that I guess spouse is the best option. there are things which you will not be able to share with your family and friends but you will find it easy to share it with your living partner
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Ok fine the point you said is also imp to be considered here .Have a nice day
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
4 Dec 06
I personally don't think so. Lots of common law couples are happy and maybe in some ways it's better not to get married. You dont have to go through the messy divorce if there is no commitment like that. And some people prefer to stay single their whole lives, its a preference. Besides, one nice thing about not being married is not having to deal with INLAWS!!!!
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
hahaha!!fine are you married
@shareit (47)
• India
4 Dec 06
Yup I agree with u . Even I am happy being single and feel that I will loose the freedom I am enjoying.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
lol finally i got a single person who accepts with me
4 Dec 06
I am married have been for 8 years and i have never been as happy. But i don't know if it's necessary that's upto the indivduals concerned me thinks.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
5 Dec 06
Okay i will surely think about it.Anyway thanx
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
4 Dec 06
What's bad in getting married?????? Listen! do u n't take care of urs faimly????? Do u n't care for taht i should do this, it'll make my faimly happy and should do this one, my friends'll like my this step. U do it. U take care of ur faimly then what's bad in taking care of own children and husband?????
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Kool!!sweetie surely i will consider ur responce.I accept with you.Have a nice day
• Malaysia
4 Dec 06
Previously, I felt the same way with you but now I already understand what marriage is. I think it is important as a way to continue our next generation.
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Hmmmmm.thanx for sharing ur personal opinion .Have a nice day
@tormentor (523)
• Romania
4 Dec 06
ofcorse is not necessary.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
plz expand and say ur responce as why
• Canada
4 Dec 06
Life is very big as well short, a person can't live without husband or wife or we can say with some good relations is always needed. Marriage is a good platform where person is engaged and understand each other. Marriage is not neccessity but must for everyone.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Okay good point of view.Have a nice day
• India
4 Dec 06
why do u think like that.u know once u married u feel that u to have some one of ur own.she/he cares u a lot even more than ur parents.and u can c the real enjoyment of having ur own family i mean husband,wife,childern.and why u think so that if u got married u miss all those it all depends on the type of girl/boy u select as ur patner.but how long u stay all alone.everyone should really enjoy that life as we r a humanbeing.
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
Fine.But i am also scared of selecting a person like that.If i am wrong in selecting then my whole life will become worst case.As i dont belive in divorce I wanted to select a perfect person in the begining itself.So thinking about these issues .I finally conculuded its better to live single.But got some soft corner for married life also .Let me check ur reponce to get a clear mind.Thanx Have a nice day
@kamalcpc (704)
• India
4 Dec 06
yes, marriage is necessary because without marriage there will be ecology imbalance
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
4 Dec 06
But i am not saying everyone that not to marry only asking about my own decision .So dont worry there wont be any ecology problem