VIDEO GAMES ADDICTION...
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
United States
December 5, 2006 11:43am CST
Is it just me, or are video games taking over the parental role???? Everywhere I go, all I hear is young kids demanding the newest video games for thier entertainment. I am older, but remember playing video games and thought they were ok. Nowdays it is absolutley insane. When I was a kid I went outside and used my own imagination to play, build things, and learn about life. Now, all kids want is their PS1,2,3, Xbox, Wii, or what other contraption keeps them from actually going outside and living life, and God forbid, getting some exrcise! I watched the news on Black friday and saw people stomping over people to get these games. THEY ARE GAMES!!! I'm on a rant, but these games are taking away from actually living life and going out and enjoying the outdoors, people, friends, family, and education.
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@mirage108 (3402)
• United States
5 Dec 06
hear hear, I totally 100% agree with you. What would the kids of today do if they didnt have their cable / sattilite tv video games or such. they would be loss. I am like you an have remember playing out side getting exercise etc I after school I was out till just before dark or came in as the street lights came on. Today the kids just sit in front of the boob tube, or idiot box as my parrents refered to it when I was a kid.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Yep, that is what my parents called it too. In fact, I was guilty of calling tv, boob tube and idiot box, to my children also. I don't thing tv and video games is a good substitute for active, engaging, play. Thanks for your take on the subject. Your response is appreciated mirage.
@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Hey CDW :)
When my son was little he was happy w/ a stick out in the yard-he had games,bats,balls,rc cars you name it but give him a stick & he was happy.
Since about age 12 he got stuck on playing games @ one point that was all he wanted to do-the games are expensive & he could beat 'em in one day! Thankfully now that he's in his upper teens there isn't much time for games.
He is having to work hard & exercise harder to try to regain a fit build from all those years of doing nothing but playing games.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
10 Jan 07
You are very fortunate that he grew out of it. My 18 year old did too, to an extent, now he is just addicted to myspace and the internet in general, lol. It is a different time than when we were kids, that's for sure. Thanks for sharing. I appreciate it.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
15 Jan 07
It doesn't take long to get hooked, lol. I think it is a necessary evil these days to have a computer in your home. But for younger children, it needs to be supervised and time limits need to be enforced. I know I couldn't be without my computer now. Thanks for all you thoughts on this topic. I really value your input.
@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
15 Jan 07
any time ;)
They love thier internet these days-I always used to say I'd never put a computer in my house & I'd send my son to the library to get on,I felt that was a controlled environment
But then I decided to start my wahj adventures & now we're all hooked on it LOL
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@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Sometimes I feel like my kids are the only ones that don't play video games. They are 4, 5 and 6 but it seems like other kids their age have already perfected many games. My kids can't even use the controller for my husband's Playstation. He occasionally puts on this one motorcycle racing game he has. It has a free mode with no goals so he sets it up with 2 bikes and they take turns. It usually lasts like 20 minutes because they get frustrated that they can't get the bikes to go where they want and I don't feel like doing it for them. My oldest did learn to play Harry Potter on the Gamecube (which we have) at her friend's house. This little girl is 7 and is an expert at Gamecube games and had to teach my 6 year old to play.
I don't know if my kids will ever really play games. We only have one Playstation2 and one TV for it and my husband is already addicted and on it every waking moment he is home and I am on the computer. Plus they all need my supervision to play games because they can't do it themselves and I just don't feel like doing that. Much easier for them to go play board games or with their toys. I admit they watch way too much TV though. I get a lot of migraines and the TV keeps them quiet while I wait (and hope) the Advil kicks in.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Sorry about the migraines. I know how they feel. It's good that you don't let your kids get caught up in the video games. But, they will get it from somewhere, like your daughters friend. There are so many games, and everyone these days seems to have one, so eventually they will be wanting to play. I hope I am wrong. Be strong, and instill good old fashioned play and outdoor activities along with the games. Thanks for sharing and replying. I appreciate it.
@dragonstar13 (1465)
• United States
26 Feb 07
I agree that kids and parents are relying too heavily on video games for entertainment/babysitting.
In this past year, I have been on a campaign to get my grandkids to use their imagination and sports to replace video games. With their parents cooperation, their video and tv time is limited to a few hours a week, usually on the 1 - 3 hour car rides we take picking the kids up and returning them to their other homes (shared custody sucks.)
Instead, we play cards, board games, color, go to the park, play baseball, and ride bikes. The kids also like to sing and put on skits.
Guess what? The kids often ask to play cards or games as much or more often than they ask to watch TV or play video games. And "I'm bored, buy me a new video game," is almost a thing of the past.
Another interesting thing, my sister who teaches mentally and physically handicapped children was just telling me about a study that shows a correlation between the number of hours children spend viewing video screens and a frightening increase in the number of children diagnosed with autism. (If I remember right it was something like 1 in 156 now vs 1 in 600 ten years ago.) Seems something in the video causes something in the brain to shut down. I don't understand all the science involved, but I do rely heavily on her judgment in these areas as she has a masters degree, and holds certificates and endorsements as a master teacher and special education teacher as well as having almost 30 years experience in her field.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
26 Feb 07
That's fantastic, I wish more parents and grandparents were initiating your system into their lifestyles. Families would be so much better off. Thank you for sharing. You are doing a wonderful thing.
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
19 Jan 07
This family that I babysit has kids that are addicted to video games. I think it's horrible! The children are 2, 4, 6, and 8. I know, silly ages lol. But it is crazy because the four year old is so good that he can even beat me sometimes! It's unhealthy at such a young age for children to be hooked on that stuff. It makes them lazy, and I've seen kids get really frustrated and angry. And as far as people stomping over people to get these games, I believe it! And I totally agree with you, they are just games! People need to relax about it a little bit. Soon video games will be considered a sport. A sport which is most dangerous when you're going to the store to buy the games!
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I LOVE your last sentance. It is so true. It does make kids as well as adults lazy to spend hour upon hour playing video games. I also find it amazing how young these kids are when they start playing and become addicted. You said four years old! Oh my. That's insane. But it's the new era, so I guess we have to be the ones to adjust. I just wish there was a way to impress upon others the importance of not getting so fanatical about the games. Thanks for your comments, I really appreciate them.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
17 Jan 07
You need to let your school work and social activities come before playing games on the computer. I know you have probably heard this 100+ times, but it is very important. There is more to life than just computers and games. I hope you will try to listen to your parents and others, and really prioritize what you need to do. Too much of anything is bad for you. Thank you for sharing and being honest. I appreciate it.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I think the problem is when video games take over in one's life...not only social life, but activity level, and impact the quality of one's life in general. If you are not allowing that to happen, then that is all the better. You are not a true addict. You just enjoy playing and that is fine. Thanks for the comment. I appreciate it.
@s1n2a3k4e580 (222)
• China
21 Dec 06
I don't oppose kids to play video games, actually I am a video game fan too. But, I always think there have a line between bad and good when you talking about one thing. When you across the line, the good thing would become bad. But, if you can handle it well, it can become a positive matter for your kids. Therefore, parents should take the responsibility to tell the kids what is the appropriate hours they should spent on the video games, not to oppose kids to play any kind of video games absolutely.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Parents do need to take an active role in monitoring the time spent and the type of video games their children play. The responsibility is in their hands, and they need to step up and take control. You are right, there is a fine line between good and bad. I wish more would see it that way. Thank you for sharing.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
23 Dec 06
You are right, anything done in excess can be considered an addiction. I take issue and disagree that there is nothing that can be done about it though. We make the choice to participate in these addictive behaviors. There are ways to break they cycles. Especially when it comes to childrens addictions; parents are the key. They need to be firm and active in the raising of their children. Thank you for your response.
@xmanofsteel69 (458)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
Video Games can actually give you an aspect of life that one has not seen before. It's not keeping people away from being active, it's actually getting better to the point where the Wii is motion activated, so you have to do motions to perform certain moves within your game. Just doing these actions can improve one physical wellness (compared to those who do nothing at all). Video Games are moving in an appropriate direction, and the lives of mankind is moving to a virtual world..and there's nothing to stop it.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Video games in moderation can be fun. I don't believe that any video game will give you the amount of exercise that a body needs to remain healthy and active. It just isn't possible. There may be nothing to stop the forward motion of the virtual world, but there is something that parents can do to prevent their own childrens growing addictions to games. Thanks for your response.
@xtedaxcvg (3189)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
Even though video games are addicting, it still falls to the parents to neutralize that addiction like spending time with their kids more often.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I agree. That was my point...parents are turning over their parental control to the video games in order to keep their kids occupied. Parents need to take an active role in what their children are doing, playing, and be firm when it comes to limiting the amount of time their kids play videos. They also need to encourage their children to pursue more active pursuits. Thank you for you comments. I appreciate it.
@agoodfella (61)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I am still addicted like i was when i was a kid i just cant get over games i play for days its just a hobbie i guess.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
It becomes more than a hobby when it affects your daily life. If you are not interacting with your friends and family, if you are obsessing over a game, or if you are not getting out and being active in some form, then video games can be very dangerous to you. Our bodies need exercise and our minds need stimulation from others. Thank you for sharing.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Yes, they all can be addictive. Do you do anything else for entertainment and relaxation? Do you interact with your friends in other ways, besides online? Are you active? A body and mind needs these things to function as a whole. Thank you for your reply.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
17 Jan 07
Do you listen to your parents and get off? It isn't good to let something(anything) consume all of your time.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
22 Jan 07
That wasn't the question though. Did you read it at all?
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I am glad. I played when the games first came out. I just feel our kids our numbing their minds and bodies with all the video games. It is really sad. Thank you for your response.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
You are correct, but unfortunatly we are an addictive society. There are way to many addictions to even cover in one discussion. Thanks for the response.
@stailgate (2363)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I think that you are right. My son is 4 and he is so into his ps2. I only allow him to play for a half hour a day though. He still has to go outside and play and stay active and all of that. I think that video games are just about as addictive to kids as the computer is to adults.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
21 Dec 06
Wow, only four and already playing. It just amazes me. It is good though that you monitor his video game time and tha you make him go out and get exercise. Yes, I agree that you can compare the two addictions that way. You are a good parent. Thanks for responding.