Love marriage vs Arrange Marriage
By manish_arote
@manish_arote (5)
India
December 6, 2006 5:00am CST
Love Marriage :
Resembles procedural programming language. We have some set of functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.
Arranged Marriage :
Similar to object oriented programming approach. We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The functions are added to supplement the main program. The functions can be added or deleted.
Love Marriage :
Family system hangs because hardware (called Parents ) is not responding.
Arranged Marriage :
Compatible with hardware( Parents ).
Love Marriage :
You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life.
Arranged Marriage :
You are a team member under project leader (parents) so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life.
Love Marriage :
Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc.
It can be described i the simple way like this
Arranged Marriage :
All these features are covered in the SRS (System Req. Specification) as required features.
Love Marriage :
Love Marriage is like Windows , beautiful n seductive... . Yet one never knows when it will crash....
Arranged Marriage :
Arranged Marriage is like Unix .... boring n colorless... still extremely reliable n robust.
what's your view
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33 responses
@Buterfly_india (219)
• India
7 Dec 06
Arrange Marriage
Arrange marriage is strong beliable source of the life.Our parents are arranged a
life parner.Because at any problem we are solving at any time.Arrang marriage is
responsibilty in our marriage life,I am also agreed Arrange marriage is very successful in life
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@catchsharad (1326)
• India
6 Dec 06
in love marriage one is responsible for everything which happens-whether good or bad.in arranged marriage its the parents who are responsible for anything which goes wrong
@rocknroll (1535)
• India
6 Dec 06
well in my view ...love with arrange marriage..
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@sweet_oceania (254)
• Japan
6 Dec 06
It may be Love marriage or Arranged marriage, both are equivalent to gamble, you don;t knw what you will win or loose... Loving a person amd being boyfriend / girlfriend is differnt from being a husband or wife.. It might be a love marriage or arranged.. its based on trust, love... I have seen love marriages lasting for 3 months after marriage and also arranged marriages which is still young and fresh as newly wed even at 20th anniversary....
Now a days even when it is arranged marriage people meet and talk and have full liberty to say yes and no.. I see no harm in arranged marriages...
I myslef had love marriage , but sometime I feel, if I did not knw my husband before our wedding, it would have been more thrlling experience.... but anyways I am happy...
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@tanzie (8)
• India
6 Dec 06
Facts:
*We don't get married to make our parents happy.
*If one feels that "my marriage should be my parents' responsibility" then that person should never get married!
*Life isn't meant to be dull and boring.
*Love marriage usually ensures that you've got the right person then why the unreliability?
*Risks in both of it not working out - chances are better though in a love marriage cos you already love the person and don't have to force yourself.
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@DanHibiki (422)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Neither of them are good in my opinion. I personally don't want to be tied down to just one lady for the rest of my life. I want freedom! Therefore I must say that arranged marriage and love marriage are both a waste of time.
@hazeter (670)
• Philippines
6 Dec 06
I still choose to have a love marriage than arranged marriage. Yes in arranged marriage maybe ur parents would be happy but what about you? Are u prepared to be with someone u dont love and staying with a man u dont love? U will never get happy if u know that u dont like a man but u get married to him. So for me it is still important to love a person and get married with a person u love.
But ofcourse we must think also that the man we love can love u forever and responsible and can take care of you.
@mpvengat (155)
• India
7 Dec 06
hey good thinking and you are feeling bad about your fortunate job i think. cheer up man. i like this post. really good.
I would prefer a arranged marriage rather than a love marriage coz
tying up a stone in a rope with the other end in your neck and jumping into a well is love marriage.
someone pushing you into a well is arranged marriage.
choise is yours
@nandusha (154)
• India
7 Dec 06
it is a good one man .but let me tell u some thing both have itis risk being a women coming from a long tradion of arranged marriags family i dont know how the love marriage works ,no marriage can survie the stome alone it is the people whom we make it worth living if u turt a man who will live hiss loved ones for u ,whom he know for his hole life ,who took care of himm hiss holelife ,that is what u whant to ask will he be there for u when u need him ,to me my family is every thing they were there for me and will be ifthe persone i get married to be is some one that i love i know my family will be ok with me but i know they will be happy for me that if i will give my family to find a nice guy for me and if every thing is fine and i can get elong with them then only the marriage happent.but let me tell u some thing it is the same love or love latter ,if u are ready for it ur will be granded with good things.and bad thing but u have to face it with or with out ur loved ones that is the point
@malsun (1528)
• United States
7 Dec 06
pretty neat! and very true. To draw such a parallel is interesting.
@shyam4uall (1002)
• India
7 Dec 06
I would prefer Love marriage over arrange marriage where one have to tie knot without knowing eachother...
Whereas in love marriage ur have the understanding in between urself and its the important thing in a long term relation...
