Will living away from your parents Toughen you up?

Since you are talking life after marriage, this view might be agreed upon by many and if i ask you, whetehr it is advisable to move away from your parents in your college life, what would you say? will it be a wise decsiion even then? my views are staying with your parents also one will learn to accept or tackle life's problems....all by himself...life will teach you everything..... Anyway's...thanks for responding

First of all, it looks like you have seperated from your parents after your marriage....isn't it? maybe it might have helped you to discover the real trutyh oflife which you also couldrealize in a simpler way because of the maturity you have now...but, even then i feel to be a success and to grow into a strong individual, one need not alway's seperate from their parents.. Anyway's...thanks for responding

In someway's yes, it will definitely teach you the real fcats of life in a very hard way and if you are staying from your parents for a short time, it's fine, but if it is for ever, then maybe some people who are to close to their parents might get effected by this and which also might reflect in their personal life later on...don't you thnk so? Anyway's...thanks for responding

Hm...i think, you are well settled now..isn't it? going back to your golden day's is alway's fun...everybody enjoys those hard day's you must have spent in college day's staying away from your parents...as you said, in the ebgining it will be tough..later on, you tend to manage everything...isn't it? Anyway's....thanks for response

Maybe, your parents will come wherever you are whenver you require them...but, you cannot depend on them like you were before when you were living together...isn't it? it's very very hard to cope with all small small things on your own and taking out time for everything also looks difficult ....so, time changes everything and you will grow stronger... Anyway's....thanks for response

yes...you are right.Being independent, you will learn many things which you might be doing for the first time on your own...isn't it? sometimes, it will be easy and sometimes, going will be tough and sometimes you will have shortage of time also to finish of everything....all these things will certianly develop you stronger in a hard way..isn't it? Anyway's....thanks for response

Yeah...you are right to some extent and if not being away form your parents doesn't alway's mean that you will end up selfish and self oriented...maybe some people end up likie this..but, definitely not all....isn't it? what do you say about this? but, being away from parents will definitely make you stronger.... Anyway's....thanks for response

I'm not saying all people end up like this, i'm saying this is what can happen in some cases, i just think the sooner that people learn to stand on their own two feet the the better it will be for them! (sorry if i seemed biased)

Yes...once you move out of your house, you will have to do everything on your own, you have to tackle all those problems which comesto you as your parents won't be around you....but, do you think moving out of your house will toughed you up? Anyway's, thanks for responding

You don't seem to be aware of the situation that might come if you stay away from your parents and now that you are staying with your parents every thing is cool on your side. So, situation hasn't come to you as of now to make you tougher in life.... Anyway's thanks for your response...

Thanks for the best response and i will be moving to singapore soon...so i will be able to answer to that very very soon! gulp! im scared!

Oh...waht age you left your parents then? was it your decision or your parents decision? are yopu still far away from your parents and how far are you from your parents? do you think everybody will be benifitted more by staying away from tehir parents or do you think itdepends on a certain age where you can make a decision of moving aawy from your parents and grow yourself tougher..... Anyway's, thanks for responding

Yes...this is my view also...so nice of you to saty with your parents and loving your parents so much...keep it up..may god bless you.You will also become stronger no doubt, being with your parents...i never meant one will become stronger only when he is away from parents.... Anyway's...thanks for responding

Sorry. Even wen u live with ur parents :-)

Living on your own and making yourself stronger might depend upon your age .....don't you think so? suppose you move out of your parents grasp or hold at a very young age, do you think you will learn many things on your own andgrow stronger or do you think it might have negative effects as you are still young and not mature enough to take pressures staying away from your parents? Anyway's, thanks for responding

I agree withy you as i myself won't agree with moving away from your parents to grow yourslef tougher as i think being with your parents you can grow even tougher as you can see your parents wit you alway's and i also think that parents need you in their old age and you need to help as they had helped you at your young age...don't you think so? Anyway's, thanks for responding

After getting married and staying away from your parents is a different thing.But, would you seperate from your parents at your young age? will it not effect you seperating at young age? doesn't it have adverse effect on you instead of positive effects..what do you say? Anyway's, thanks for responding

What about you? are you away from your parents? planning is alway's easy....but, actually undergoing stressful circumstances is difficult.If you really a young chap and planning to move away from your parents then, mind you, it is not that easy as you put it....going will be very tough without your parents around... Anyway's, thanks for responding

Oh....really sorry for your condition.Maybe, mylotians will help you out by sharing so many things around.By the way, was it your decision to move out or the circumstances made you move out of your house .....? Anyway's, thanks for responding

He....you seems to be very emotional person.You are also talking on my lines here. But, i liked the way you expressed your views.Your parents were around you when you needed them most...isn't it? now, you should also be around them when they need you more...isn't it? how nice of you to feel this way...really..great you are.Keep it up.Don't worry, people like you won't fail...you will reach new heights with your parents blessings, faith in god and believe in yourselves....you will become a tough individual being with your parents...All the best... Anyway's, thanks for responding

Yes...everybody will miss their parents especially in trying circumstances like this.But, do you feel you are going stronger being away from your parents or are you getting depressed day by day as you are away from your parents? Anyway's, thanks for responding

Yes....yes...yes...so many points and i do agree to all of them.Once you are out of your house and start living on your own , away from your parents, you will be surrounded by selfish people who will see only their progress and not anyone else's......and you tend to become weeker facing these people and the problems coming along....isn't it? Anyway's, thanks for responding

Everybody seems to have this common opinion of growing stronger with parents around.But, it alldepends on many factors like, what age you are moving out of yopur house, what circumstance you had to leave, whetehr you really can cope with problems that will come later....just because making statements is alway's easy..and implementing it is difficult...for sure.. Anyway's, thanks for responding