What one thing made you fall in love with your partner?

@suedarr (2382)
Canada
December 7, 2006 12:55pm CST
In my case I would have to say my hubby is one of the most kindest people I have ever met. Kindness is very important to me, and in his case (yes I am a female, not that it matters, but in case your curious about my avatar)his kindness is extended well beyond me, our family or friends. He is genuinely nice to all people no matter who they are. You?
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
7 Dec 06
I have to agree with the kindness. He is soooo kind my man, and he is always treating me right! I love him always=)
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• Canada
8 Dec 06
What... It wasn't my hot bod? My unusually extreme intelligence? The fact that I can recite almost all Star Trek, Monty Python, and Black Adder scripts from memory???
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Ok. Those too!!! LOL!!!
• India
8 Dec 06
LOVE...his love for me ..he waited 5 yrs. till i accepted his proposal.I've learnt one thing.LOVE seas NO REASONS..
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Interesting answer. Thank you!
• United States
8 Dec 06
How I am completely comfortable with him. I can be my completely retarded funny self all the time and he loves me for that. Good question.
@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Thank you, and happy to hear you liked the question.
@Bayleigh (141)
• United States
8 Dec 06
He respects and values me as a person, hes very caring and I found his shyness a bit sexy. His occupation attracted me as well, he trains horses to race, hes got a rugged job and has a great body to show how hard he works, hes generous, and is always concerned with my well being. I couldnt feel more blessed than I do to have him in my life, I certainly feel deserving of him.
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Thank you for your reply!
• India
8 Dec 06
love - 640*480
a very short answer yet a very strong one. "love just happens by chance not by choice"so it might be anything....like his bod,his persona,his charisma,his attitude towards life,......nething.that we get to know slowly n slowly, when the time passes .
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• India
8 Dec 06
sorry it got repeated.
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@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I can't really tell you why I love him...I just know that I do. some of the things that make him so special to me are that he sings to me often, he is a very loving, caring man, he considers my kids and grandkids as his own(even though my kids are all older than he is)and he accepts me for who and what I am and would never judge me or try to change me...he loves me as I am! there are so many other things I could list here but still I could never tell you what makes me love him, I just do!
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
8 Dec 06
"LOVE ISN'T FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON...IT'S SEEING AN IMPERFECT PERSON, PERFECTLY!"
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• United States
7 Dec 06
I don't think there was just one thing. We met at work. He was really good-looking and friendly. We hit it off right away. It didn't take long to know that we were soul mates. I guess you could say it was love at first site with the both of us. We have been together for almost 18 years now. I don't know what I would have done if it wasn't for my husband. He's understanding, trustworthy, and funny. we don't do anything without the other one. Its really strange how well we get along together. I never knew that love like this was possible
@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Thank you for adding to this discussion. I appreciate it. :)
• Romania
7 Dec 06
this place inspires love? - for me, yes!!!
my boyfriend himself...he is so good!
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@vimal9 (214)
• India
8 Dec 06
very nice to hear that... i too wish the same.
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@edras_2 (299)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I would have to say the same for my husband.He is kind honest, decent, hard working and there is nothing he can't do!I'am constantly amazed by his abilities and talents.He is so funny and sweet,he loves my mother and my family as well as me.What I fell in love was his smile.When he smiles, it's not just his face, it's in his eyes,too.He has a beautiful heart and soul and I'am completely crazy about him.And wre not newlyweds either!Sounds like you and I are lucky women to have the wonderful men we have.
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Hehe don't let the avatar fool you. I am a she ... :)
• India
8 Dec 06
it was her simplicity . god i love her very much..!!!!
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
That is beautiful. Thank you for your reply.
• United States
8 Dec 06
i knew i loved my husband when i was 16 we meet the year befor we dated for over six months (we were friends befor we stared dating)now im 22 and were married with three kids (he had a 6 yr old from befor) and i love him he has something that is rarely found in men (by the way he is 25)it that old time love open ing the door always letting you know that he loves you and when he s gone that he miss you thats what i love about him
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
He sounds like quite a gentleman! Thank you .. :)
@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
Honesty & love.....in my point of view these two aspects are important to be in love with your partner
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@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
I think honesty is very important too. Thank you!
• United States
8 Dec 06
I met my husband two days before he had to go on deployment out of San Diego. We spent the fourth of july together and he was so sweet to me. I asked If I would ever see him again and he told me probably not and walked away. All the time he was gone I thought about him. He reurned 2 months later and called me. I knew it was meant for him to be mine. We have been together ever since. He came back to me :)
@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
Thank you!
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I can't say it was just one thing, I guess it's just him being the person that he is, I liked him because he was a nice guy, and after being together for a while we fell in love, it sure didn't happen over night, I admired lots of things about the way he lived life and overcame his struggles by himself.
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@justlord (331)
8 Dec 06
the only thing that make me fall in love is sesitivity of my partner to respond to my feelings
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• United States
8 Dec 06
His persistance! He didn't give up. I kept saying no and he kept saying yes. He won out in the end. He has other great qualities... but I wouldn't be with him if it weren't for his persistence because I really didn't think he was my type.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
8 Dec 06
he cared...even before we started dating...he just cared so much about me...he wanted to know that i was happy. and its not just for me, but he cares about everyone...he has a good heart...and he's silly..he makes me laugh and smile..
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@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I met my husband when I was his son's preschool teacher. He was so good with him and so sweet. We all went to the zoo and had such a good time. He was just so sweet and thoughtful. That really did it for me.
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• India
8 Dec 06
love - 640*480
a very short answer yet a very strong one. "love just happens by chance not by choice"so it might be anything....like his bod,his persona,his charisma,his attitude towards life,......nething.that we get to know slowly n slowly, when the time passes .
1 person likes this