i wonder this love is pure or just lust......

LOVE is unconditional..LUST is temporary....it's easier to lust than love.!

i only have this to say, its only a thin line that is between love and lust.

I don't think that you can tell by knowing someone just from online chatting whgether its lust or love . You don't know that person but just what they tell you. Yes its exciting to talk to someone and even have intimate talks but in my books it's considered cheating already as you both withhold that information from your spuse. The whole chatting escalated into a emotional affair so far . You started it because you felt bored ..maybe your partner feels the same way - Did you try to communicate your feelings with your partner ? Did you think about how to get some "spark" back into your real life relationship ? Its easy to blend reality out and to live in a dreamworld - just know you are on a dangerous path and its not yet to late to turn around before real damage has been done

I dont think its a healthy sign of relationship

That sounds like the same thing my ex husband, and now he will be paying me for the rest of his life. Be careful, think long and hard about what you are doing. If it is true love then yes, pursue it, but if it is just a replacement for your marriage you need to stop right now.

Divorce your current partner before you pursue anything with this person don't hurt anyone in this process of your "finding new love".

Have you seen the person with whom you chat. To check it out yourself do one thing. Ask yourself a question, in case, if the person you are chatting is a very ugly looking person and have some other problems too, would you be continuing the relationship? Don't rush on to your answer take time and find it yourself.

lust

whether it be lust or love, u r doin somethin very wrong by cheatin ur wife..

Lust.. to sum up...

hey.. people seem much more lovable on the net... only when u really get to know him u get to know his bad sides.. It's easy to sheild our bad sides nd project our goodsides on the net..

You are excited by the 'something new' part. My analogy: This new interest is like a new pair shoes. They are fresh, new, and make you feel good.... but they will never fit like your old favorite sneakers that you seek out for comfort on your longest, hardest days. I'm just afraid that you are asking for blisters! Don't you remember when you felt that way about the person you married? Maybe you should try reminiscing about the first meeting, kiss or even the first time you made love. It's never too late to add some oxygen to the flame at home. There are many ways to rekindle that love.... I completely agree with the guy who said to "nurture your own lawn". Anyone can feel lust for someone, but love is so much more rare & pure!

hey its just a infatuation

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I think you just need to sit down with your spouse and talk to them about this before you and this other person meet and go any further. You will be sorry when you get busted. 10 years old marriage is a long time. Why you want to risk your life and everything else with people you met online.

can be both

Think carefully before u make a move, do more prayers. God will give the best to those who leave the choice up to him ! Believe me .

this is da basic reason marriage has to be done after much thought..you must make sure tat you are ready to spend your whole life time with tat person

You have to do things to keep it interesting. But if you are so quick to bail when things get a little less exciting, then leave. Certainly leave before you start pursuing online relationships or even real life ones. This never ends well and no amount of excuses is going to make this particular situation any different.

you're married to a doctor and have a happy marriage with kids AND you have a hanky-panky on the side... whats the problem?