Beggars

@nithila30 (1423)
India
December 8, 2006 6:04am CST
Theres a beggar i would usually see when i go to office .She is a lady.she is not having vision .she is blind.So i used to pity on her and will give her money to my satisfaction. One day as usally when i was offering money to the lady.The women who standed near by said dont put her money almost she commanded me .i was curious and wanted to know why?She told me that the lady is not blind and she has her own home too. I was totally confused and was half hearted to belive it.After few days when i was out with my frnds i saw the beggar lady was pointing something ina shop and getting some food items.I was shocked to see that she is not blind.I was totally upset after this incident.Being a kind hearted person i am unable to digest this incident.Nowadays i am confused whether to help others who i am seeing on the road .I have a second thought whether he is really handicapped or lying. I just wanted to share this incident becoz i dont want others to get fool like me and also wanted to know anybody have crossed incidents like this.Do u think humanity is dying
8 responses
@Betso221 (1699)
• India
8 Dec 06
Interiors & Exteriors - Interiors & Exteriors
I have seen a lot of this that's why i have stopped paying a lot of them now a dayz i only pay who are handicapped or really sick u can understand by lookin at someone.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
8 Dec 06
But its bit difficult to find them out.They are real oscar winning actors.lolz......But must be careful with them
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
8 Dec 06
Thanx for ur responce
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
8 Dec 06
Can i know ur from which place.
• Singapore
8 Dec 06
beggars - beggars
knowing this incident will not stop me from giving to any other beggars. i may get cheated by this 1 lady...but what if the next one to come is really in need of money? after all, we only give the amount of money that is within our ability...so i will say, i prefer to share the love and joy.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
8 Dec 06
wow thanx for ur information lady.i am really glad to hear that.Have a nice day
@nithila30 (1423)
• India
8 Dec 06
Your really too nice..ur words are touching.have a nice day
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Yeah, that's something. Some people would do such a thing because they don't want to go out there and get a real job just like honest people would.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
12 Dec 06
Yeap ur right .I dont know how come they are cheating people who tries to help them
• Australia
12 Dec 06
i never do anymore, some get pushy which i dont like
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
12 Dec 06
Okay thanking for sharing ur opinion here
• United States
12 Dec 06
That is awful. I don't see many, and when I do I don't give them money. I saw on Oprah a homeless man that was given 100k. He blew it all on junk and never even purchased a house or an apartment. He ended up homeless again in months.
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@nithila30 (1423)
• India
12 Dec 06
Oh is it.thanx for ur responce
@heman20x (234)
• India
12 Dec 06
God will look after the ppl who cheat..but we should do what can do..i prefer to give charity..bez they may die with hunger....If i have enough money i will do some charity too..
• India
24 Dec 06
o0h so sad.... even i have met many fake beggers on road.... better v can stay away from helpin them
@soneparm (634)
• India
24 Dec 06
beggars are the most of problem in our country if the beggar are the handicaped person the we belive that they need a help so we give but when a healthfull person behave as beggars then this a problem this is the hard situation the county