when the one you love cheats you....

It also happened to me, but I gave him a chance to prove himself that it was just a fling. And I'd proven giving him a chance was the right thing I did because were still together and if you really love someone, you would learn to accept hisfailures, his weaknesse, his shortcomings.

It also happened to me. I gave her a second chance and it work out. I gave her a second chance because i Love her so much and i know the reason why did she do that adn right now we are going to celebrate our 7th year anniversary of being together. I trust her and i know she will never do that again anymore but if she did i don't know if i could still give her a chance. I think that's too much.

i will definetely give another chance because if we dont give give them chance then it is our mistake to select that person,as we should not be on wrong side i will definetely give chance

I have been with my husband for 26 years this year and if he has ever cheated on me he's kept it very secret because I never found out about it, but if I did, I would leave him and never speak to him again and make his life as miserable as possible because to me that would mean he didn't really love me and our whole life together was a lie.

I was with a guy for 4 years - we were going to get married and he cheated on me. i tried to forgive for 6 months but it was impossible so we broke up. I do belive people can change but the trust was gone and he didn´t seem to be willing to work on it!

well i'll always love her coz i feel u can only love once in ur life, so its ur badluck if ur lover turns out to b a cheater, i'll give her one more chance to prove her but if she fails again i'll stop trusting her.. but i'll always love her...

yes i can not my first love so i will still love forever. but if she cheats me then i cannot forgive her

I will not give him any change. POnce he betray my loyalty, forever I will not let him on my side. because in my mind, he able to do that again

Oh yes you are very true. Even i have been in the same condition. its 3 years now. She cheated me and still waiting for me to forgive her. Sometimes i do think i should forgive her as i just cant give up thinking bout her but i believe that once given the opportunity it will always be in your mind that she cheated you and will keep on troubling for the rest of your life if you people staty together. Knock it off buddy Cheers If you like Post me as best response