love love and more about love
By jrc_garcia
@jrc_garcia (21)
Philippines
December 9, 2006 6:24am CST
there is a lot of questions about love and a lot of things associated with it. Sometimes it is really hard to define love or does it really have any definition. But when it comes to relationships, love is one of the main core. It is somewhat easy to light up the candle of love. YOu don't even have to exert that much effort. But, it is really hard to maintain that light shinging. What do you think are the ways to main the heat of this little thing called love? I hope i could recieve a lot of ideas which are based on your experieces. love you guys
46 responses
@ToPonderOn (13)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Love is long-suffering and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, does not get puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails.
@krprasannakumar (237)
• India
10 Dec 06
Love is a basic dimension of human experience that is variously conveyed as a sense of tender affection, an intense attraction, the foundation of intimacy and good interpersonal chemistry, willing self-sacrifice on behalf of another, and as an ineffable sense of affinity or connection to nature, other living beings, or even that which is unseen. It manifests itself in feelings, emotion, behavior, thoughts, perception and attitude. It influences, underlies and defines major patterns in interpersonal relationships and self-identification.
@kingfisher123 (177)
• India
10 Dec 06
well its tough to hold on to your love.most of the time we fail because we fail to understand our love.love is too complicated and difficult to understand until you experience it.
@DaConciousChick (37)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I think that one of the ways to keep the light shining is constant change. I think that at times people get too comfortable in their relationships. Lol, I am guilty of being too cormfortable. It's like once you get your mate you no longer have to do the extras. For example, keeping the hair looking good and dressing nice. Some people throw all that out the window and dress in shabby clothes with wild hair, LOL. Another thing, some people lack in the intimacy department. The man just want to take the short cut to intimacy and not the long route. Couples are comfortable with staying in the house instead of going out. Kids are anotherthing to consider that will kill the light in a relationship. I'm not saying that kids are bad thing because I love kids and hope to have some one day. I think if you want to keep the light shining if your relationship then you need to be able to talk about your wants or needs in the relationship. Sometimes it good to switch things up in relationships. For example, do some role playing and try new things. It's important to make alone time for just you and your spouse. So once a month or more it's important to have a night out on the town. I think it's important to be willing to compromise sometimes in the raltionship to make our mate happy.
@epizzahut (2078)
• China
10 Dec 06
I think love is everyone need,it is the most important in ones life.love is something you need to love someone,especially the pepole around us.
@domenyag (1273)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
"LOVE".... For me love is not something you feel. Because if feeling is the basis of your love then that is not the real love. Feeling changes at all times, while love does'nt change at all. For example: I love my husband so much, He is not loveable but I love him the he is. We actually cannot define love. But Love is more on action and not just merely saying it.
@balabrahmam (1071)
• India
10 Dec 06
yes but love is great experiance if it sucesss life makes beutifull any trouble life make harabule but in evry realation must be love is there without love we did not maintain our relationship
@myself_wheniamreal (107)
• United States
10 Dec 06
i've fallen in love with a boy, but i'm just waiting for him to make the first move. right now we're just really good friends. i just spend the whole night with him thought. oh....my heart can't handle it!
@yinghua (4)
• China
10 Dec 06
I can show a poem,maybe you will get some feeling from it.
why some people present but pass by?
I think my right one is only a late myth.
afterwards,angle tell me my right one is myself.
so please disconnect me.
since then,I have a half,and you also have.
I can love because my right one from me.
I love you.
I love me.
...
But real loss is only possible when you love something more than you love youself.
@sunny_a13 (6)
• India
10 Dec 06
hey love is a sweet and lovely experience in every body's life and we get a lot of experiences and even there are various types of loves ,in our child hood its very very sweetest love with smiles ,cries playing with the beautiful children and cute ...in in our teen age the love is different and its all about our feelings and intentions and its also a cute and good experience ,,,every in the planet will experience it...it will lost for our later life too .. as it is very crucial it can bring to up's and downs in our life ...and in our career tooo
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
9 Dec 06
i think the relationship has to be put together by the 2 people and held together by 2 people, if you get a person that just doesnt give a damn about the relationship well the love is gone, but the main thing is dont spend to much time together all the time but dont spend no time at all together.
@om_das2002 (22)
• India
9 Dec 06
universal law:
love can neither be created nor be destroyed, only it can transfer from
one girlfriend to another girlfriend with some loss of money.
first law:
a boy in love with a girl, continue to be in love with her and a girl
in love with a boy, continue to be in love with him, untill on unless
any external agent(brother or father of the gal) comes into play and
break the legs of the boy.
second law:
the rate of change of intensity of love of a girl towards a boy is
directly proportional to the instantaneous bank balance of the boy and
the direction of this love is same to as increament or decreament of the
bank balance.
third law:
the force applied while proposing a girl by a boy is equal and opposite
to the force applied by the girl while using her sandals