Is 3 too many?

The worst possible thing you could do to your marriage, yeah both parties might agree to it, but say hello to divorce court in the near future. The marriage is over if there is a need for someone esle in your bed and you both knowingly agreed to it.

At the end of the day it’s their choice. However the fantasy is far healthier to have than the action. You do not know how either partner will react until it happens, and then it could be too late.

I think its no problem. Me and my husband are going to do it one day. But we have some rules already set in stone. Firstly its not goin to be a friend (bc then someone might get left out one day) and secondly if we do, do it, we cant have the same girl more than twice.. bc then you start forming a realtionship with her, andsomeone might get left again. But i do this it can work

what the rubbish have you posted?marriage is pure and divine!dont think like this.

The fantasy of it is way better & healthier!

That is a no no! This could stir up many emotions between the husband and wife and possibly cause some cheating to happen in the future.

It works for some for the wife wants the woman...for other it is a disater in the making for it's the man who wants the second woman and the wife gets jealous.

I totally believe that three persons are really too much for a married couple. It is not healthy and you cant go on like this. If you like these things you have to try them before getting married. When you get married you have to respect your wife or your husband and not cooperate to things like these which will cost you in the futre. Maybe one of the two of you will have a problem in the future and decide to go with the third person in the future and then you loose your marriage. So its better for you to be quiet.

ya ithink two is two many

You already know the answer. If you have to ask, then the answer is obviously NO.

How can both of them bring another one yes unless it is the maid to clean the mess

its worst idea.. if u dont want to lead to a happy married life go ahd..

Just sick, wrong, and crazy.

two is company, threes a croud

thats really not fair to the other party. should not be encourage.

i would love to try it... but i have never had a girlfriend who wantet to try it.. hehe

It's a great fantasy, but I think, while it might be fun when it happens, it's going to create long-term problems in the relationship.

I know for myself I couldn't do it watching someone else touch my man or having someone touch me while my man was watching that would be unconfortable. I also know that men are repetative they don't change things much. I have found this out from talking to my aunt for one who has done it and two I became friends with my now ex boyfriend's ex wife and one of his ex girlfriends. Needless to say he wasn't real happy about that idea however girl talk did happen and boy oh boy did we have a good laugh. He has used all the same line all the same getaways bla bla bla. Not to say that there isn't a man out there that can't or isn't willing to be different or have something special that he didn't have with anyone else. But my aunt told me when she saw her man look at the other woman like he did her that was it, it was over it hurt her to see that look that she thought was only for her. And I am sure if there are any of you women out there that have caught your guys head turning in the direction of the younger more bustfull woman walking the other way you kinda get the idea. Don't most wife's want to be the senterfold in their man's life? And there are so many other things you can do to spice things up other then bring someone else into it. I love to surprise my guy catch him off gaurd you know wisper something in his ear when his friends are around. His cheeks turn red and there has been a time or two he couldn't stand up and walk company to the door! Or when he gets home from work meet him at the door in just an apron and a pie tin full of whipcream and say honey I made you a pie today! And if all goes right it won't even come up there was no pie cause it's all over the two of you anyway! get a set of cat ears and a black nighty and ask him if he'd like a little kitty tonight. And guys can do it too. But if you have to have the third wheel I have heard it's best to find someone you don't know pick up someone from a swingers bar you don't want a good friend of either of yours to have to deal with after unless it's a friend that you don't care to lose but keep in mind you could lose a friend and a lover and become a wheel. That would suck!

This will be total disaster.

This is a dangerous situation because although being experimental in the bedroom can keep relationships strong, is this a step too far. I have a frined who did this with his girlfriend and they were fine afterwards, whereas another mate of mine did this and it messed his relationship up as it brought out jealousy issues from his girlfriend that neither of them knew she had! Tread with caution on this one. However if your not spoken for and you get into this situation, well done first of all, and enjoy!