his girl left him!!
By komal345
@komal345 (278)
Pakistan
December 11, 2006 7:07am CST
My friend was going far good with his girl friend since very long, they both had a deep friendship, they almost did everything and both were in true love.
He helped the girl alot and use to giv her many gifts, and she did the same for him.
The girl when she joined university and the boy got admision in some other university, but still were in same city and used to meet as same and talked on phones but gradually girl met a new boy in university who she thinks is more helpfull for her to get more marks in univerity papers because he is son of a Regitrar of university and normally in this univeity students get more marks if they have a little source.
Now girl doen't even talk with my friend and he is confused and still in love with her. He says he sometimes wants to kill that girl or him self.
Now what he should do!!! He doesn't want any other girl in her life, he'll be left alone in life .
73 responses
@puneetwalia2006 (10)
• India
11 Dec 06
komal ji
nothing to do. and just to wait for the time to come in urs friend's favour. there are many things much more than university marks and gifts in love. if urs friend really love her, then a day will come, when she will only be having good marks and nice gifts and no love. she will realise that day wat is love.and that day definitely will come.
@milestone (787)
• India
11 Dec 06
I guess he should talk to the new guy in her life. He should make him realize the whole scene geniunely. I feel If that guy is good and understanding than he will avoid that girl and then the girl wont have any choice and will come back to her. But after that i will suggest him to leave that girl himself as i dont think its gonna be good enough. But if he is comfortable and positive in his relation then he should continue.
If you like my decision let me know
@humaaaa (1386)
• Pakistan
11 Dec 06
no he doesn't has to talk with the new guy .. this has prooved that girl is flirt, if she can drop the first guy she'll drop the second guy as well and will get with someone else.
she only needs famous boys to mingle with her and to let her improve her personality. guy should find another girl for him
@malcido (422)
• United States
11 Dec 06
He should be grateful that he found out what she's really like before they made a lifelong commitment to one another. Someone who would choose a boy/girl friend based on what that person can do for them (grades, gifts, etc.) is not someone that you want to be with.
I'm sure that he is in a lot of emotional pain right now, but forcing the matter and trying to win her back would be a mistake, in my opinion.
@Undefeated (4788)
• Singapore
12 Dec 06
I think he should ask the girl and have a meet and talk properly with the girl ... if the girl still reject then he have to face the truth ... and tell him thats not only one girl on he world ... still got many other nicer girl ... don because of a tree and let go whole forest ....
@subhadiproy (847)
• India
12 Dec 06
there s nothing abybdy can do abt it...gals are like this always... they don knw anything except themselves...they just wanna make thsemlves happy by all hooks n crooks
@mansha (6298)
• India
11 Dec 06
my motto is if you love somneone set it free if its yours it will come back to you if it doesn't it was never yours. I think your friend is feeling sorry for himself.Tell him that he should concentrate on his carreer for present and he deserves better than someone who is just using guys to get good score.Come on you are his friend show him the light of the day.The misery he isd feeling is just for now and I am sure lots of happiness awaits him in future.
@loise19 (214)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
i totally agree with your motto and your comment, better look for someone who deserves his love
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Maybe he should look for other girl for that girl dont deserved his love for she is only after of what she can get and dont really inlove of him tell him to look for more deserving girl.
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
12 Dec 06
She's being very selfish. This should tell your friend something about her. It's unfortunate though that there's nothing that he can do but learn this about her before he got hurt even worse.
@sunflowergirl (3064)
• United Arab Emirates
18 Dec 06
he should let her go...if she wants she wil come back...
@siddharth_sampad (319)
• India
12 Dec 06
oh this is so sad... that girl is so...... not at all good
your friend should just forget that girl... if she really had loved him with her heart and not because only he used to help her... thats not done!!
he should forget her completely
i m sure he deserves someone really very good!
@sunnylovesdaniel (429)
• United States
12 Dec 06
He won't be left alone in life, he just needs to find someone new that's all. If she did that too him , she's not worth keeping. Throw her out to the trash i would say... TELL HIM TO MOVE ON AND FORGET ABUOT HER...
@braveheartpt (3037)
• Portugal
12 Dec 06
You friend it´s dazed and confused, but if he think with a cold head, then he will see that she´s only interested at the other boy because of his influence. So she really doesn´t love him, so for his health he has to quit thinking in that girl. I know it hurts, and a lot, but by my experience it´s better that he forgets.
@prue187 (517)
• United States
12 Dec 06
If the girl still loves him, then it wouldn't be hard for the two of them to reconcile. But right now it seems like the girl doesn't want to be around him. It will take time to heal but he need to do something else, like go out with other friends and have fun. Maybe it's time for him to move on. I know it's the hardest part, but it will be easy once he meets someone else to cheer him up. Besides it's not the end of the world and she is not the only Eve here on earth.
@adnan82 (672)
• Pakistan
12 Dec 06
LOve lol... WAT kind of love was that. .... GIrl left her for marks...so made him .. thinkk wat kind of girl she is.. .. he wants her back.. but made him think...that by chance ifu got her back... wat are the chances.. .that she ll b trusthworthy enoUgh to get in to a relationship.......She can leave her for marks.. only . .. then. Ur frend is not matured enough to think that wat kind of bi*** is t hat girl is.
@durgakrishna000009 (32)
• India
12 Dec 06
my suggestion is that he is very much lucky he knew thye character of her after if they were married after that if it happend wat will be the position of u r frnd.tell him to forget her and also tell him that every thing that happens is for our goodsake only
