So what do u think it means?He really likes me or just just trying to get laid?

If u ask me, I will say no! Don't go wit this kind of guy if u just want to cure the wound that your ex hae een giving. Be patience, u will find someone better. i Your life is a moie you're the main person. Don't let the audience 'come disappointed

You might think about it a bit. Good solid, give-and-take, mutually nourishing relationships and "quick, give me someone, anyone" don't go in the same sentence very well. "Quick" also doesn't give you time to grieve the loss of the ex and recover. You wouldn't, by any chance, be looking for a guy to "fix" you or make you whole would you? That's ten miles of bad road from my perspective.

I would just keep looking. It is always good to follow that inner instint when meeting people.

Keep looking... If that's your instincts on this guy, go with the feeling.. get rid of him.. keep moving on =o)

There is, at the end of your discussion paragraph, a big set of contradictions. First you say you feel he was just trying to get you to sleep with him and that you don't trust him, only to add that you don't care who you're with as long as you're with someone. So, which is it? I'm not in your shoes nor do I presume to know you well enough to give you definitive advice, but I once made the big mistake of dating a woman (older, divorced) after having to leave behind a woman I was in love with but couldn't be with for various reasons. I wasn't in love with the divorced lady, but, like you, I just wanted to be with someone. End result: I wasn't happy, the divorced lady was not happy, and we fought like cats and dogs because I really loved someone else and was not really making any efforts to make the relationship work. This went on for almost four years until finally I grew a set of "cojones" and broke up with the divorced lady, whose heart, regrettably, was broken, but it was either that or live a lie...so I did what I had to for both of our sakes. So, if you feel you must be with someone just to be with someone, that's your business. But do think about the consequences, not just for your sake, but for his as well.

Hello, your blah blah blah tells me what you are thinking. I don't know when you broke up with you ex, but if it is recent then don't start dating. Because now you are contemplating that you should not think about your ex. For that "Keep your mind busy all the time.". And you say that you don't trust him(new one), then what's so point in having a relation with him. Its like "To overcome one problem get into some other problem.". Hopefully you understand what I am trying to say. "Have a clear mind, come to a situation where you say that I can start my life again.". Until then you should struggle little bit with your life. Don't worry things get sorted out on its, give some time. One more thing "If you don't know a solution to a problem, then forget about the prob or get adjusted with it. But never create one more problem because of this." What you say???

if you feel that way towards him that he only wants you to sleep with him and that you don't like the idea, then, avoid dating him. and if you're looking for ways to avoid your ex boyfriend, another man is not the answer to it. look for something that is worth your while. something that interests you. do you crosstitch? do you pain? do you read books? there are many ways to forget your ex. you can even get along with your friends and spend time with them without worrying about just being laid by unworthy men. trust yourself. you can forget your ex. just think of the best way that will benefit you.

Keep looking honey he's sounds like he is just trying to mac.

Hey Girl Are you serious!!! You cannot possible go with this guy!!! You know what he is after!! He wants to get inside your pants!!! Keep looking, you will find some one

so date him and dont sleep with him. if you dont like him or trust him keep looking for another guy or become his friend and maybe you'll meet a guy thru him..good luck!

Hey, just because he wants inside your pants doesn't mean that you have to start sliding down the zipper. lol. But, if you think that he might get physical against your wishes either dump him or start going out in groups only. HTH.

he just want to get laid why don't you find another guy. a nice one don't be obsessed to get your mind off your ex..it's dangerous. it could courage you up and do the silly things like you don't care who is this guy, as long as you have another man respect yourself, baby

Hey beautiful you can have lots of people in your life. I know is sumtimes hard to forget your ex and getting involved with someone is one way out but its not the only way and anyways even if you want to get involved with someone then why with a person you dont trust.Its never adviceable and it will lead to more heartburns.Its better to stay away from him. other ways of forgetting your ex, other than being with someone could be, be with your girl friends, take up your hobby more seriously, spend some quality time with your family. and ya there is always mylot.........lol hope you got my point. Take care and enjoy life.

If you don't trust him, don't date him for the sake of dating! If you're afraid of being alone, that will only lead you into problems - take some time for you, and look for a single guy you DO trust and like. You need to build up your self-esteem, go out with friends, and don't desperately grab onto this guy just because he fancies you, if you have misgivings.

It is not worth asking this question. Even if I were to be in his place, I would have asked you to sleep with me. That is all and nothing more.

keep looking, girl. One thing i've come to respect over the years is women's intuition. If you feel that way about this guy, you're probably right :-)

You urself is saying that you don't trust him and all he wants is to get u laid then their is no point in going ahead with this relationship,if at all u are kean on dating then try some good dating sites and i'm sure u will find your perfect match.

First, dating another guy just to forget an ex could spell more trouble, at least from my point of view. Second, I'd say trust your instincts when it comes to this certain guy. If you think he can't be trusted then do get your guards up. Or, you can go look for another guy to date. There's no point dating this guy if you can't trust him. It's like you'll just be wating your time. Who knows what might happen if he is able to seduce you? Don't you think you'll be in a worse situation than where you started? Third, I wish you luck! =)

He is just looking to get laid with you !!Beware of such guys !!! If he make any physicals advances thats means he is looking for lust not love

date him, sure, why not? sleep with him just to get over your ex? HELL NO.