perfectstranger

@perfectstranger (727)

Indonesia • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Nothing lasts forever.

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20162) • India 23 Nov 12

On this Earth and in this life, nothing lasts forever. We came here empty handed; will go back empty handed; nothing we are going to carry; it is certainly tragic, but we have to keep our eyes on what lies ahead....

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perfectstranger dust to dust, ashes to ashes, all life would die The most important thing is not afraid of what happens when we die later, but trying hard to be the best for ourselves, the people we care about and for the people around us. Make life a meaning That's...

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Have You Betrayed By Some One...

sourabharoy1992 @sourabharoy1992 (730) • India 22 Nov 12

Leave me alone.. I want to spent sometimes lonely. But why? I love you so much and you love me too. I did but I don't..please for give me. I still love my ex-boyfriend. After spent one years how can she said that! I totally...

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perfectstranger The situation is quite complicated and sad of course for you. I have never been betrayed by my boyfriend (now my husband) But certainly there is justice in this world People either just content paired with good people, and bad people are for the...

23 Nov 12

Suspicious activity?

Lucy Leyshon @RaineLockheart (219) 22 Nov 12

So I just tried to search for something here on myLot and a message came up saying 'We have noticed some suspicious activity for this account. Please try again later.' I have no idea why it did this and now I can't search for...

confused

suspicious activity

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perfectstranger I've never experienced it, but try asking the administrator or try to repeat the process again and again things like that are usually done by yourself, no need to worry

23 Nov 12

any dewa 19 fans? why you like this group?

teddy @m_5ugar (1013) • Malaysia 1 Apr 07

their songs is really really best. can make me feel very high..

dewa 19 fans

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perfectstranger I particularly liked the Dewa 19 since I was little, ever since I was a schoolboy. Their songs while still having the main vocalist Ari Lasso is really a masterpiece. They actually combine idealism and beauty in music. The song "kangen" is one of the best...

21 Nov 12

My Older Sister has Issues

Vnyard @Vnyard (286) • Philippines 20 Nov 12

Ok, I am very close with my siblings and parents. Since I came home to the Philippines 4 years ago though, I noticed something that is bothering me until now. It is about my older sister, she lives in the house where we grew up....

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perfectstranger Maybe you and your sister should keep a distance first, your sister like that probably because the pressure inside the household. Different is the situation when we were still single and when we're married. Many needs that must be met as well as economic...

21 Nov 12

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i am thinking of chaing har color

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 20 Nov 12

i don't know which color would suit me since i have not been changing hair color except once and the color i had was not that far too different from black. i just made it a bit lighter before. so some people would usually change...

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perfectstranger I prefer brown hair, basic color my hair is black. favorite color to dye my hair is brown

21 Nov 12

Helter Skelter

its-logos-plus-logic @flowerchilde (12529) • United States 19 Nov 12

More than 30 years ago, I read a book called "Child of Satan, Child of God" written by one of the female followers of Charles Manson. She wrote about what had happened.. and she wrote that she had been saved, as the saying goes....

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perfectstranger I think whatever happens (destruction or peace) that is caused by human action itself. I never trust any prediction of the astrologer and anyone. What distinguishes what is going to happen is not a forecast, but what we do today.

21 Nov 12

Fight or give up

soblessedindeed @soblessedindeed (60) • Philippines 20 Nov 12

I am an emotional person. When it comes to relationships, I am one of the 'martyr' type. When the going gets tough, I don't easily give up. Instead, I will try to seek for possible solution to save the relationship. I only give up...

love and love

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perfectstranger I think your nature is correct, we do not get too give up in a relationship. But of course we must have a good reason to do that. Make sure that the reason it is something that is very you need in your life

20 Nov 12

Do you spend or save money?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 20 Nov 12

Saving money is the best for me because I am not really sprnd too much. I am just a simple person. I have no watch at my wrist. Saving money is within your future wehter you spend a good one or give others like giving poor people....

people money

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perfectstranger I think the best thing is the balance between the two. We certainly have a lot of important needs that must be met by paying a sum of money. But on the one hand, we must try to economize and save money. It is used in the future when there are emergencies that...

20 Nov 12

How possible is it you will see your favorite places?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 20 Nov 12

My favorite places that I have been to are Sydney, Cape Town and Vancouver city wise. My favorite countries are Samoa, Australia, New Zealand, Belize and the Seychelles. I visited Sydney when I was aged 20 years old in 1993....

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perfectstranger My favorite place was Finland, the state of the rockstar. Some say, if we throw any stones in Finland will be the head of a Rockstar. Beautiful country, with the world's highest happiness index. The country also has the highest competitiveness in the world....

20 Nov 12

I tried bringing them here....

adnileb @adnileb (5276) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

.....in mylot. But I failed. So, I have five referrals and only one of them is active. (Thanks to my fiancé) I remember inviting my second referral to join mylot because she's good in doing blogs and...

mylot

referrals

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perfectstranger It's not your fault, it was difficult to get others to follow what we do, as do mylotting. what we can do is to stay motivated and in one time show them how much fun this event. Maybe gradually they will also follow what we are doing, although in different...

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Guns' N Roses reunion is it possible ?

Machinegun0 @Machinegun0 (62) • Lithuania 23 Aug 10

I am huge fan of Guns'N Roses and sometimes i woder is it possible that old guys from Guns'N roses culd come back together and plays some great music as tkey did back in 80's

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perfectstranger It seems difficult for the older formations can be reunited GNR. All we can hope is that they can forgive each other. especially between SLASH and Axl Rose

18 Nov 12

I dropped my phone in the tub last night.

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5469) • Canada 17 Nov 12

I went to wash the bbq grills in the tub last night and I had my phone in a vest pocket. I didn't know that the pocket was too shallow for the phone. Unfortunately the mic has shorted out in the phone and no one can hear me on...

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perfectstranger Perhaps it is time to buy a new mobile phone that suits your needs

18 Nov 12

Why does girls needs to be necessary in terms of Dress, Bags,Shoes, etc

Jandie @tech40 (23121) • Philippines 17 Nov 12

Cos one time I went to a department store, or any store that sells female things, then I find out that, why does girls takes hours on stores? cos here's the scenario, I get in to the store, find some watch, it just takes 30mins,...

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perfectstranger women not only choose the outfit by logic but by feel as well. A lot of little things they are concerned that determine their decision to buy the dress or not. Is the dress nice, cute, sweet? of course, is there a discount? It was probably the most interesting...

18 Nov 12

Use your polite hand...

sishy7 @sishy7 (27167) • Australia 17 Nov 12

I saw a friend and his small kid, whom I met for the first time, today at a store. As I was talking to my friend, his son, probably around 5 years old or younger, asked his father if he could offer me some candies he was holding....

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perfectstranger In some cultures in the world, something that smells like the left-hand left hand is not considered a good place to be used to give something to someone. Perhaps this is because in some places the clean up (sorry) butt with his left hand after defecation

18 Nov 12

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staying too close with your family is suffocating

rizzaspeaks @rizzaspeaks (391) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

True or not? Depends on the kind of family, I suppose. I've met different people and many of them said that one's character is first built at home. That, I agree. For me, a family plays a vital role in one's personality. The...

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perfectstranger Family remains an important part of our lives. Although in the end all the important decisions we will take. But the family is supporting us to become a better person, gives what is good and which one is bad. No parents want their children to experience a fate...

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Are You More of a Talker Or Listener?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 10 Dec 08

Do you know anyone who actually tries to do both at the same time? I have a relative that claims to be listening to what you're saying but she's so busy talking loudly over other people, so she can't hear what they're...

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perfectstranger I definitely was a listener. I do not know whether I am a good listener, but it basically I prefer to listen rather than speak. By listening we can go with other people, feel what they felt, to know their problems clearly and provide a logical solution. With...

13 Dec 08

Does smoking really has some advantages?

garfield_zhou @garfield_zhou (530) • China 12 Dec 08

We all know smoking is harmful to our health. Last month, my mother was in hospital for a week, so I often go to the hospitial to see my mother. Once I went to the doctor's office to inquire about my mother. What shocked me is...

advantages

parkinsons disease

smoking

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perfectstranger I think it's all still a silly reason from the incompetent people . See this is like a comedy film in theaters. Okay, maybe in one hand smoke have a surplus that can be utilized our body, but let's compare with the losses that can be caused from smoking .is it...

13 Dec 08

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Do you ever fel brokenheartache?

perfectstranger @perfectstranger (727) • Indonesia 14 Jul 07

Do you ever felt youw heart was totally broken? I ever felt such kind of miserable feelings like that. It was at the moment when my first boy friend leaving me for such kind of silly reason that I don't even understand it untill...

broken heart

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perfectstranger In this life, we must prepare everything. I know, when broken heart attack you, it's painful. Things that you see, sometimes only to remind all to return to the pain. But I just assume that all is a valuable lesson. Human created for learning anything. even...

13 Dec 08

Do you ever fel brokenheartache?

perfectstranger @perfectstranger (727) • Indonesia 14 Jul 07

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perfectstranger Unfortunately, your father can say something bad such. Should support him, but not with the way such. However, anything that we should try to find the positive side, albeit from even the worst case. Try to be as motivated only. Never surrender

13 Dec 08