Real friends

There is a possibility of having real friends. Good friends are hard to find but once you do they will stay with you for life. Don't just expect someone to pop and all of a sudden become you best friend, friendship takes time and work, just like any other of relationship. It may be hard but definitly well worth it!

Yes it is possible to have real friends. I have at least two that help me out whenever they can and I do the same for them. It is so good that you are close friends with your wife, that is what I wish for my kids, to be friends with the people they married. I found my friends through church, but other organizations do provide grounds for solid friendships. It is hard to trust people sometimes, but I can tell either one of these friends anything.

Well, I have found that I am in the same boat as you. I've never had a true friend because I seem to find the perfect one that is going to screw me over some how. I guess I have that "loser" signal that lets all those "mean" people know that I am a sucker because each and every single person that I have come into contact with and called them either my friend or "best" friend have literally screwed me up the rear. And because of that (and other past relationships) I have a hard time trusting anyone that I come into contact with. Don't get me wrong, I think that I make a wonderful friend...you can confide in me, I don't judge, I keep a lot of things to myself--meaning if you have a major secret I don't go blabbing it around, and anytime you need anything I am there to help out. I even go as far as if I am in need of help, but my friend needs it too, I'll push my problems to the side just to help them...I believe that their problem is more important than mine. I do believe that there are good people out there, I just wish that for a change, that I could find one.

Great question! I think it is just in movies and books. I have never found someone willing to go the extra mile without expecting something in return. I have lots of friends but none that would say give the shirt off their back to help in a situation.

You can find real friendship, it's just difficult. I have a best friend, and she's been my best friend for five years now. She's taken care of me when I needed it, she's always been there for me, and I can count on her for anything. And she can count on me for anything, too. We've been through thick and thin. We get together whenever we can. We share everything with one another and we never judge each other. And we smack each other when we need it, and point out when the other's being stupid. I'm very lucky to have her, and I don't know what I'd do without her.

Im from Scotland and i remember in high school a teacher once told me that it's impossible to keep a friend for life. My best friend and i for almost a decade prior to this year moved to Canada together, had one of the best years of our lives and, it sounds bad, but i consider him my brother, mabye more so than my actual brother...so i think it is possible to have real friends these days, but perhaps society has changed to the point where people have many aquaintances and collegues as apposed to someone they can call a close friend

True friends are hard to come by and it takes time to prove. Hang in there I am sure they will come along.

No it does exist. And I am lucky to have such a friend. Will you believe it we have never physically met each other. We talk over the phone and chat and email regularly but somehow we have never been able to meet.

mayb u never tried having good pals... lemme tell u my personal experience... i was a terrible pal... in school.. i had plenty of pals whom i luvd to hang out wid.. but other than tht there was no emotional closeness... i just dint let them be close... i knew their personal stuff but they dint know a thing abt me... i thought i was the clever one, but i dont know how much i was losing by not confiding in my pals... we left school and my pals tried their best to keep contact, but i never reciprocated much... just for decency sake, i used to return their calls... but when i went to collg, my life changed.. i got a new set of pals who i assume were created for the sole purpose of changing my entire outlook of life... the way tey cared abt me, the way they stuck next to me no matter wat.. the way they consoled me when i was heart-broken made me realise wat a crappy pal i was... i just was too ashamed... now i keep contact wid my schoolpals too... but its my collg pals who r always gonna be in my heart forever... i wud do anything for them... and for a change, these ppl know my personal things and it feels so great wen i confide in them... there are times i even think friends are more important than family... u dont know wat u r missing buddy... its very special... ur wife might be ur pal, but u can get better friendship outside ur marriage too, but only if u make urself available... i do wish u found ur "man friday"!!

I've had some true friends, and I've others that backstab me. My true friends are nice, but the backstabbers friends got me into a lot of trouble. Heres some advice: Look for some friends, you can still find them. Don't give up until you find a true friend and don't lose him because its hard to find good friends. If you liked my post, press the "+" button to the right of this post. Thanks!

Reading your post makes me feel sad for you. Honest. Are you really doubting your own friend to be real to you? Or don't you have a friend as close as your brother? Ive got lots of them and mostly they're my childhood friends who really been a true friend for me in good and bad times. Just look around and try to appreciate things that your friend is giving to you. His/her friendship, care, concern and love. People tend to remember always the bad things and forget the good ones. Let's change this kind of attitude.

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I think it isn't difficult to find a good friend, just be a trustworthy person and think positive. Never lie even to your foes and then observe how many good friends you will be having.

I know ts possible to have REAL friends. I have got 2 Real best friends. I have known them for over 10 years now... We are a group of 3 girls that have a friendship for life. We are there for eachother when needed and help each other trough rough times... So its possible!

I would say that the main qualities that describe a good friend are loyalty, trust, respect, sincerity, companionship, reliability, love, openness and honesty. I find myself sometimes supporting my friends through a crisis, and when it's my turn to have a crisis, they are usually there for me also. This all serves to strengthen the friendhip. Unselfishness and mutual understanding are also very important, and usually good friends will be compatible with each other. My friends are really supports and encourage me.I am very lucky to have such good friends .I thanks to god.

I think I truely have ONE good friend who cares about my well being and not about what I only have to offer. I have been fooled by many pretending to be my friend in order to USE me for something they want and if they get it, then I am no use for them anymore. I also believe a true friend is not going to judge you for something that doesn't affect them!! I can't say that about so many that I know!

we could still have real friends. i have lots of friends, but the real one, i think they're only two or three or four. they really help me in whatever problems i have. through thick or thin we are together. yes its really hard to find someone so true and real to us.

Yes you can have real friends... I do have few. The truth lies in how you pick up your friends, and how well you judge people.

well i think we all have some real friends..!! we just have to judge them...