Insecure People?

Well I think Person A may want to talk to person B and clear this up. Introverted people can still make a relationship work. Does Person A and Person B bothknow that the other is insecure? If so they might could use this similarity to strenghthen thier relationship.

I really dont think so.I dated a guy and he was very insecure always thinking i was seeing somebody else or he was always thinking i wasn't feeling him.I can imagine if we both were insecure it would not work out because we both would be worrying to much and accusing and lacking selfconfidence

well, in my point of view, yes, but then changes got to be done on both sides, if they want to be together, they got to change to suit each other.. =D

Insecure people find it tough to mix with others and to trust anyone easily, which can always make them harder to have confidence in others

yes , they can mix but chances are very rear, one of them needs to have lots of patience.

well i think they just need to discuss their feelings more openly. talking about ur feelings always resolves things

It's all up to the couple if they work it out or not. All i can say is you shouldn't worry about little things like this. Usually everything goes just the way it has to go naturally, even without a human trying hopelessly to "fix" something.

I believe that two insecure people can make a relationship work if they both put the effort into it. It may be difficult at first because they are still getting to know each other but if they try than it can work. They may need some kind of counselling, whether it is family and friends or a professional. but it takes the effort of both people to make any relationship work.

They could probably make it work more so than a confident and insecure person together. Two insecure people tend to feed of each, becoming co-dependent and comfortable. They can also understand each other more because they feel the same way about things. There is this couple I know and they both are the epitome of the word "insecure". I cannot STAND being around them. They play mind games, even with friends, and they never want to go anywhere where they may feel uncomfortable, so basically they either go to local hole in the walls or stay home. Anyways, they feed off each others problems and it seems to work for them.

i agree, two insecure people together can not have an effective long lasting relationship. For me we all fall in to negotiated roles when we start a relationship, one of us will be insecure, one will be confident and take the lead. Two insecure people would destroy each other with jealousy and this would eventually turn to resentment if not hatred

It's possible. I don't think I've ever come across it though. I imagine one of them would have to be a bit more dominant (less insecure) than the other for it to work. Good question.

Insecure people can easily change with the right help. Some people don't have the chemistry that's needed to be in a relationship, and that's just the way it is,even if you love that person. That's my opinion. :)

this is a little difficult to comment on... what i think is that the insecure person must be informed that his/her insecurity is affecting the relationship in a negative way. if the insecure person is unwilling to change or improve, at the very least, then yeah, it's gonna be a short relationship. first of all, though - why be in the relationship if it makes you SAD? i mean, relationships are not all love and happiness and all that crap - but if you're 80% happy, then i think that's pretty good. if not, what's the use?

yes, two insecure people can make it work, as long as they are both willing to work at it. also it's important to not think solely of yourself, and your feelings, but to take into consideration your partners feelings as well.

its difficult, but definitely possible

I admit I am VERY insecure. I think that so many people are against me and I do know in fact it has happened before that they have been but even when it's not I feel that way. I feel like I am the one always being judged and singled out. I have stupidly jumped to conclusions before. Not fun.

insecurity doesn't matter for me. But i would say that perhaps it might work out for them.

I believe that no, two insecure people in a relationship does not mix. Someone has to be strong in the relationship. Now, with that said those that are insecure have to be especially careful of who they get with because if their partner knows they are insecure, they may take advantage of that person. That's how you get emotionally scarred people that have been abused verbally and/or phyiscally.

yeah, insecure people don't really mix at all

No, insecure people need secure or confident people to change their mentality. Insecurity mixed with Insecurity just creates more insecurity.