Caught Him/Her Cheating

Philippines
December 16, 2006 10:38pm CST
What would you do if you caught him/her cheating. Would you ask him/her to leave? Would you confront him/her?
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22 responses
• Singapore
17 Dec 06
i wouldnt ask her to leave, i would leave myself, no point staying and confront her, just leave.. the best way to revenge on your unfaithful partner is to give her to others pal! =D
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@asimo603 (1366)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 06
I will confront him and end our relationship rightaway cos I have no toleration for a cheating partner .
@jeanvill (654)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
i confront the girl because she is my best friend and then break our friendship already and so the guy too
@drrahul44 (1152)
• India
17 Dec 06
confront - confront
i would confront him/her..
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
Wouldn't you ask him to leave? So a confrontation means that you will be giving him a chance to explain himself? Would you like him to talk you out of your anger on the situation? Would you accept if he tried saying sorry?
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
17 Dec 06
He wouldn't be asked to leave- He would be TOLD to leave. No second chances with something like that. Why bother confronting if you've already caught him? It wouldn't be worth fighting over at that point.
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
Wow that is really very straightforward. Won't you even hesitate doing it? So I guess if you caught him cheating that's really the end of the relationship, no more explanations necessary. Yes it does hurt but for me if I still love that someone I will try to ask myself if I could bear leaving him or her that very moment.
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
17 Dec 06
What would YOU do???
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
I would confront the person. Then I would ask myself if I could accept an apology. But if he/she continues to deny it, I will ask him/her to leave.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
19 Dec 06
If I caught my man cheating I would confront him and ask him why, and then I would leave him. Why would I stay with someone who cheats on me? In my opinion, If you cheat on me then you honestly don't want to be with me.
@sharone74 (4837)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I would confront the situation and then I would leave. He cheated in his marriage before and I wouldn't stand for it.
@carmat (2849)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I would ask my husband to leave if I ever found out that he was cheating. I am a very busy mom of four wonderful children and I dont have the time to put up with someone who could do something like that. We are married for a reason and if he feels that he needs to be with someone else than go. I wont put my kids through all the betrayal and arguing..fighting that will be involved they come first. and nobody will disrespect me that way.
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 06
book-How to caught ur cheating lover - book-How to caught ur cheating lover
for me its depend if its only the 1st time i might considered to give him a 2nd chance,coz i believe people can chance and they deserve a 2nd chance.but if its happens for the 2nd time then i'm surely gonna kick him out of my life forever:) its happens to me once far before me+my husband get married.but then he prove he change till now we finally married and happy
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
20 Dec 06
Initial response is usually not pretty. After cooling down and thinking - forgiveness is the best response, but it must be true forgiveness.
• United States
20 Dec 06
Just say leave do not waist my time
@koltrone (264)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I have zero tolerance for cheaters. I talked things like this with my husband and he knows that I do not and will not give him a second chance if he cheats on me.
• India
20 Dec 06
well...i would definately argue with him/her and would try to make him/her understand that how much he/she hurts me..
• United States
17 Dec 06
ohh yesss!! I did and i did! lol..I came home on our dating anniversay th eyear before we were to get married and i got him and my friend in MY BED TOGETHER! whoo hoo!! mever mess with a woman scorn! lol..I kicked her bum..then his..and then they left and i was so damn mad..i burned everything he owned except for what ment the most from his family..i threw those in boxes and set them out on the patio and changed the locks! rrrghhh! But yes i felt better after i did that lol.
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
17 Dec 06
no second chance once a cheater always a cheater this is no three strikes and your out lol
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
19 Dec 06
I would surly throw him out of my life and to be serious with you I would not even want to know why he did it because to me their is no explanation!
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
18 Dec 06
I'll let him know that I know he's cheating and that I'm leaving, so that he can have fun with what's her face.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I would confront the person. and then say Goodbye have a nice life.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
i will confront the person. im not sure though if i will be able to talk well. i guess i just have to be composed when doing that.