Is compromise a good thing in a relationship?
By fazlyawi
@fazlyawi (95)
Malaysia
13 responses
@missinghim (1339)
• United States
27 Dec 06
If you are totally unyielding in a relationship, then you won't have one for too long, and won't find happiness until you can learn how to compromise. **Cream
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@missinghim (1339)
• United States
27 Dec 06
**actually scratch that, I'll go with burgundy
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@123456_ (1052)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
yeah people on a relationship must know on how to compromise. if people wont be able to compromise, the relationship wii work out..they will stay stronger giving and taking some. the relationship will have a fair play.
**about your side note ill pick burgundy
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@perfectstranger (727)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 06
Yes, compromis it's important. Beacuse it's part of the understanding between couple. As long the things we want to compromise is not a crucial things
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@akupandai (78)
• Malaysia
23 Dec 06
I think compromise is important to a point, but not when it puts more strain on a relationship. If compromise means you'll be miserable then why do it? You'll probably just end up resenting your partner for making you do something you don't like/enjoy.
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@Adversa (406)
• Australia
25 Dec 06
Comprimise is esential for a relationship. If you had someone who felt exactly the same as you on everything that you did then you would be bored in the relationship. Your going to have different opinions on quite a lot of things, how well you comprimise determins how well the relationshiop works (fairness, It canny be one sided)
The only time I resented anybody for compromise was with one of my ex's. She told me that one of her previous partners drank a lot, and it scared her. Although she never asked (and told me it wasnt nesesary) I stoped all drinking for her (not a big drinker anyway). She was so gratefull. I was fine with it untill I came hope from work and found her very drunk on a bottle of vodka (makes her cranky that stuff).
I was rather resentfull at that point in time.
(On a side note: is it burgandy? - the rest are alchohol - or can me mixed with alchohol, the other is a colour. That or the rest are liquids) Or it could be cream, the only one that doesnt have two of the same vowl in it? Burgandy doesnt have any E's either
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@nicolai (288)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
yes compromise is a good thing to develop and mature in a relationship, because its humility on the part of your partner or vise versa, you learn to give and give way...
@samraf (725)
• India
12 Feb 07
compromise is always there in every relationship, one cannot found the patner who is totally upto his requirement or need. there are always some problems or some negative points avilable in your patner and for that you have to compromise else you wont be having a happy life.
so its better to have a better life then to get a disaster
so ill suggest that tryt o compromise as much as you can else there would be nothing left for you in your life.
Regards,
Sam
@vijju22pal (23)
• India
12 Feb 07
s,compromise a good thing in a relationship.no i havenot resented lover for making me compromise.cream is the one that doesn't belong with the others in the category.