Has A Grudge Ever Cost You?
By Brian
@wolfie34 (26771)
United Kingdom
December 17, 2006 6:47pm CST
I fell out with my dads sister about ten years ago, neither of us have spoken, or have made the first move, we are both extremely stubborn and surprisingly we are BOTH Taureans. She died this month and now its too late. Have you ever ruined a relationship, friendship etc.. through having a grudge against someone?
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7 responses
@weemam (13372)
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30 Jan 07
As i have gotten older I have started to tell my family how much I love them , my parents have Alzheimers and hubby has reecently had a tripple heart bypass and it has brought home to me how short life is and that we should tell them now , then we wont have the pain you have gone through xx
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@Naomi17 (624)
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7 Feb 07
Only once and that was because a friend betrayed another person big time the family had to move away because of her lies and i was the only one who told her how badly she had behaved and i couldn't forgive her!
I decided if she had so little love in her heart and could be so vindictive i was better of without her, the family lost a lot of there so called friends because of her and certainly did nothing to deserve it!
Its like she woke up one day and decided to spread lies and i think i was the first person who dared tell her what i thought.
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@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
30 Jan 07
well there are a few people that crossed the lines and I dont think I will be ready to make up with them even if I have 10 lifetimes.lol I guess I just have to pray about it all because I just am not perfect. I just dont feel that it would be beneficial to any of us in some cases. I dont walk arround thinking about them carrying a grudge but I dont want to see them at all really. I put them in my non existant folder of my brain...lol
@sineen1981 (339)
• United States
30 Jan 07
i dont think taureans should hold grudges, they just dont know when to give in! it is their biggest weakness! i cannot ever date a taurean again! becauSE i am a sagitarius. unfortunately i usually have preconceptions once i find out a man is a taurus!
@emekus4eyes (129)
• Lagos, Nigeria
7 Feb 07
No one is wort you anger or hatred in any way. i do not bear grudges at all. if anger comes at all it can last just 5 minutes and thats all. life is too simple people should not make it complex.
@confusedfellow (43)
• India
24 Jan 07
noooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!
i never have been into this situation ever before,and dont like to be in a one.infat i dont have this word in my dictionary.
@doncris (637)
• Romania
24 Jan 07
I lost because grudges usually make me not to keep my motuh shut and of course, that is bad. I try as hard as I can, but I just can't hold my trap when something's unfair and I can say something about it. Although I know, that's not going to make things better and that I am only going to suffer because of it. It's like a sacrifice for justice:P.
