Have you learned lessons from your past relationships?

I think everyone learns from their mistakes, it is just if they remember not too repeat them again, it is human nature to learn to hard way.

Each relation ship will give you a lesson if we observe well.

I am very familiar with that song. :) And yes, I do feel that most of us tend to follow a pattern that repeats itself in relationships. At least until we realize we are doing this. I have learned from my past mistakes but it didnt happen over night. Happily today, I seem to have broken any bad patterns that I had established in previous relationships.

well my past relation ship was 4 years long! yes o course i have learn from it but most i think my ex learned because i left him!we couldent manage it anymore!and now he is sorry butt now i already love somebody else!he couldent give me that attention that i needed !well now we are both happy because he has a another girl and he is happy and i have my little angel that i love we are great friends thou

Yeah a lot of lessons in which thought me and make me stronger to become a better person.

YES OF COURSE I LEARNT LESSONS FROM MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS. I TRIED AND ANALYSED WHERE I WENT WRONG SO THAT I DON'T COMMIT SUCH MISTAKES WITH MY PRESENT RELATION.

No I don't repeating the same mistake that's why I got married. and have been Married for almost 12 yrs.

I have definitely learned from my past relationship and I will be d*** if do the same ones again!!

Yes, i have learned a lot of things from my past relationships... In my opinion, mistakes from old relationships, make present relationships even stronger.

I guess not, I seem to always make the same mistakes.

I lwearn.. 1. communitaction is the best part on relationship 2. be honest I think that will help me to find another nice relationship

Unfortunately I have learned a lot of lessons, but I still seem to make the same mistakes again- does that make any sense? I have learned what I don't want and what doesn't work for me in a relationship, but then I seem to end up being involved with someone and the same things creep up again. I'm not good at judging people at the beginning. I find out too late that they are controlling and possessive, would rather stay home and be a couch potato than go out, find fault with all of my friends... Now I am taking my time with my current relationship. We have been dating for 6 months, but we spend a lot of time doing fun things and really having some good talks. Maybe I've finally learned?

The one thing I have learned above all is ...to be true to myself. I have to live with myself & my decisions. I know I have made mistakes & learned from them. Each relationship has made me who I am. Each one has left me a little smarter, a little more self aware, and given me different views of myself & the world. I hope I have done the same for them.

I always learn too much from the past, but some mistakes would still be there. Maybe just because I'm a stupid boy

I definitely learned the hard way...It took me over two years to finally get strong enough to turn the other way. I was with a guy who would leave, come back, leave, come back over and over again. Yes I was a sucker and took him back. I wanted our son to have a mom and a dad. I was against split family homes even though I was only 19 years old. Anyway I moved on for my son...he deserved much much better. I am now married with 3 other children and my husband adopted our first son five years ago when he was 3. Happy ending!

in every relationship we give our very best to make it work, but sometimes our best wasn't good enough. we ended up breaking up or part ways, well that's part of life. the best thing is we learned a lesson and move on.

I've learned many things from my past relation and the first thing I want to mention here is 'not to believe any one' I was in a relation of love and after got ditched I don't even believe in the word 'love' I was hell curious about love when I'm not in a relation of this silly thing! But now no chance! I was not a lair before, but I start lying now and I had never think that I'll be no more but the circumferences telling me that I'll be no more after some time. God, relations relations! No trust on anyone now :) Have a nice day! Happy earnings!

A person can indeed learn, but it takes a strong-willed person, and a person who is willing to admit their own faults, and their own roles in the relationships. A psychological understanding of the kind of person were seeking and the roles we play help as well.

most of what you do are a spur of the moment. YOu just shoot right through the hips. Oops, you did it again. You've got reasons why you don't repeat your mistaskes, but it's got nothing to do with your learning. You fear for your life and sanity. Learning is a subconscious effort which mostly manifest in trauma or being aloof. If you don't fear the consequence you're going to do it again. But if you're not eager to spill your guts, I think that's the time you learn your lesson very well.

this is my favorite quotation that i always put in my mind and in action.."IF YOU DO NOT LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES,WHAT IS THE SENSE OF MAKING THEM?"..i guess,the quotations speak them all..we should learn from our past relationship..we should use it to improve more ourselves and also our future relationship..