money or love?
By humaaaa
@humaaaa (1386)
Pakistan
25 responses
@swarn47 (1706)
• India
19 Dec 06
Love cannot get money. It is money which has the capacity and power to attract others. Then in due course of time that attaction may turn into love for each other if both the persons find mutually suitable and mutually understandable to each other. For me money is more important because if we dont have money our wife will leave us or she will be bound to leave us. Our children will leave us. This is the practical scenerio of the world today that it is money which is more important rather than love. This is true for men at least.
Now in case of women, it does not matter much if she has money or not. What matters for her is a good and caring husband. Moreover I have personally experienced that those women who are richer or earn more than their husbands, their money does not bring peace and tranquility in the home. Their money becomes a prestige issue and thus It brings dispute, quarreling environment in the home.
I have experienced that when woman earns, she says her money is either for her or for her children. It is not for husband at all. But when the matter of husband's money comes, she claims every right on that. Nevertheless, it is true that she has the right on her husband's everything but this notion is being misused more or less these days. Why the women does not have the same spirits for her money also. Why does she exclude the husband out of her family when her money matter comes.
A man never says that his money is for him only. He leads the whole family. But in case of woman, woman has the less intentions to lead the whole family. In today's world if one has money, he is respected and applauded more. Love automatically comes to him. There is no doubt that love's importance cannot be ignored because during difficult circumstances it is love which proves more helpful but I feel that during that period also love is expressed only if the other person has money.
So, my vote goes to money out of money and love. I have seen many ups and downs in my life and I have experienced that it is money which is more important than love. There are many things which are better if unsaid. I am not saying those. I hope you shall be able to read between the lines.
You started a good discussion. It is more or less philosophical discussion. If we go by philosophy, people will vote for love and if we go by the practical social, moral, political, personal scenerio, people will vote for money. You see we have to live practically and not philosophically. That is why I voted for money because a person is compelled to live in reality whether he is optimist or pessimist. He/she has to live the life in reality.
This is what I feel. Now What do you say?
@suju15 (184)
• India
19 Dec 06
Both are important in their own place. Without money it is difficult to keep your love, without love you can not part with money.
@budhie (257)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
money is important than love , if we have a lot of money of course will be happy in love . lol
@chanfrado (1157)
• Portugal
22 Dec 06
Both!
Furnately for me I have both, I hope I never need to do this choice in my life.
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22 Dec 06
i think its a critical question... but according to me... if we have a peaceful mind... we can earn how much ever we need to... so.. inorder to have a peaceful mind.. we need a good life partner... so... love comes first in the list...!
@mmkengg452 (70)
• India
21 Dec 06
If a person has a love in his/her life then that person can obviously do every possible thing to keep his/her love life great.And for that movey is also an important factor.So due to this his/her also has to earn money.SO if we compare both love and money I believe love is more important than money.
