suju15

@suju15 (184)

India • Age 60

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protective parents.....

aseemkhan @aseemkhan (218) 3 May 07

Sure, all parents want to take care of their kids, but what about parents who are over-protective. Does it do more harm than good to keep a child in a protective bubble all their lives? Is it better to let them make mistakes and...

parening

parents

protection

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suju15 To a certain limit, the protection of parents is important for the siblings in order to retain their innocence and keep them free of all horrors of life. More protection,than what is required, will positively be wrong as the child will never learn to cope up...

3 May 07

Having a second child.....Hubby isnt too sure.....

jonnysmomma @jonnysmomma (75) • United States 1 May 07

My hubby and I have been married 8 years this year, and we have a almost 3 year old son. I have that undeniable itch for a second baby. My husband says that he wants another kid...but hes scared of the financial aspect, as hes the...

more kids

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suju15 If you are financially all right, then this is the right time to think about another child. With two children you can teach them a lot, like concept of understanding, sharing, loving, companionship, and so much more. Single kids always miss these pleasures...

1 May 07

allowance

paola_m @paola_m (15) • Philippines 1 May 07

is it right for parents to give allowance to their kids even if it's vacation time?

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suju15 Don't spoil kids from a very early age, by giving them allowances, n feeling free yourself by telling yourself that you have given them all goodies in life. But if your children are old enough to appreciate why they get allowance n what to do with it, then its...

1 May 07

Does age matter when you're in-love?

iamnoiala @iamnoiala (99) • Philippines 27 Apr 07

Ever since, (well at least for all i know) most girls prefer to be with older, mature guys than being with younger ones. Coz as they say, the younger ones (guys) are not mature enough to handle a relationship. [Take note: Girls...

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suju15 Age of course does not make a difference in the matters of heart.But if you are serious about some one, then it would help you both, if you are round about the same age.Preferable would be the girl being one to three years less than the boy.In such cases you...

28 Apr 07

Marriage

austral_mac @austral_mac (12) • Pakistan 28 Apr 07

what is the best.........Love Marriage OR Arranged??

marriage

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suju15 I feel a combination of both would be best.If love results in marriage then it is very fulfilling.But sometimes children do make mistakes, looking for the right partner.In such cases, if love follows a mutual arrangement,then where is the problem. Either...

28 Apr 07

Think Positive...

Savi_la @Savi_la (33) • India 28 Apr 07

Say urself every morning... -Today is goingto be a great day. -I can handle more than I think I can. -I can be satisfied if I try to do my best. -Iam going to make someone happy today. -There's always something to be happy...

think positive

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suju15 Hi, even I believe in thinking positive n looking ahead in life.Even though your picture shows a lot of determination on your face, a happier one would work well, with those who feel low n truly need to feel optimistic.

28 Apr 07

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How do you feel about anti anxiety medications?

cynddvs @cynddvs (2948) • United States 5 Apr 07

My fiance is thinking about getting on something for his anxiety. I'm a little uneasy about this. I know these medications can become very addictive. I would rather try a more natural approach first. Does anyone know of any...

addictive

anxiety

medication

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suju15 I don't know how bad are things at your end, But I would definitely, suggest Yoga, n Meditation practices.Medications are ok initially.Later on, if the body becomes addicted to them, then leaving them becomes very difficult. You can try advising, Yoga n...

20 Apr 07

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Do you like motivating people or you like people motivating you?

thefuture @thefuture (1749) • Nigeria 20 Apr 07

I like motivating people, because I am facing challenges in life and whenever I see anyone in such condition, I feel encouraged to motivate him. What about you? Do you like motivating people or you like people motivating you??

motivate

people

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suju15 Motivating people is great.It brings a great joy to you when you see the person motivated by you, achieve success in their life.It feels like you did a nice deed for someone that day, and your own life feels fulfilled.Motivating people, and to see their lives...

20 Apr 07

Education: a privilege or a matter of right

capssy07 @capssy07 (207) • Philippines 20 Apr 07

Education for most of us nowadays is a must. It is really important for us because we know on how much education we have the greater hope we can find decent job. But more most of us here, it is a reality that only few people can...

education

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suju15 Education, in itself is both....it is a matter of right, and also a matter of privilege too. It is a matter of right, because every individual should be able to have the access to education, without it the society would not advance or have the right...

20 Apr 07

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Its so nice to hear old songs...

fairygreen @fairygreen (533) • Philippines 4 Apr 07

Its really nice to hear old songs from the past.Coz they are more meaningful and they have more essence than the songs that are puffing now.It also remenisces the old times, and its really soothing to the ears.So what about you,...

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suju15 I heartily agree with you.Old songs had a lot of depth, meaning, emotions in them.Even the remixes that you get to hear these days can pass of their feelings. While as, the new jargon is at times just hopeless and one prefers to switch off your mind as well as...

18 Apr 07

Whose Fault Was the Massacre?

whimsystoryteller @whimsystoryteller (1743) • United States 17 Apr 07

Ever since the massacre at Virginia Tech yesterday, everyone seems intent on blaming the University officials. Why? They are not mind readers and had no way of knowing that the young man would do what he did. They could not have...

discipline for children

gun control

responsibility

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suju15 No one else can be blamed for this unfortunate incidence excepting for the young man responsible for it.See, even he knew in his heart that what he was doing was not correct, as he shot himself too. Basically, its our values which are at fault that the...

18 Apr 07

How old do you want to live to?

sir_talk_alot @sir_talk_alot (340) • United States 17 Apr 07

I want to live until I'm about 103 years old. The longer I live the better. The reason why I want to live for so long is because I want to see the future and see how much things have change since I entered this world and began to...

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suju15 From what I can gather right now, age brings hardships in some form or the other.As, for myself, I would be happy to go from this earth, after my girls settle down in family, and career. As far as you are concerned, its hats off to you, if you can really be...

18 Apr 07

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what chores do you have your kids do?

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 15 Apr 07

my kids say i make them do to much. they say other kids dont have chores like they do. i wonder am i to strict when it comes to that. i have one that does the kitchen and one does laundry. they both have to do there bathroom and...

chores

cleaning

parenting

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suju15 My daughters are 18 and 13 years of age.Whenever I am short of time, n a lot of things need to be done at the same time, they clearly know that they have to help me, whatever the chores may be.Rest of the time, they can take it easy, n ask me for any...

16 Apr 07

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Why is my mother like that?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

Actually, yesterday my mother and I had a fight again because I went out with my friend. Before that time, I was able to mention to her going to a place with my friend to exercise. I don't know if she forgot but she said I didn't...

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suju15 I, agree with you, but we need to make a start somewhere.Do try and show her the picture from your angle, she should understand.Moreover, at least you will always feel in your heart that you tried to be fair in your relationship with your mother.How will you...

15 Apr 07

Which is your favourite Computer game?

julie111 @julie111 (44) 12 Apr 07

hey.. can u share which computer game u like most...

computer games

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suju15 Bookworm is amazing... Zulu gems is fun.... Jigzaw puzzles are great... Puzzle express is very good...

12 Apr 07

Why is my mother like that?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

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suju15 No mom on this earth will ever like to see unhappy children.If something is irritating her regarding your friends, then I feel you should sit down and discuss it with her.If she readied your pants then may be she is not fully against things.But your hiding...

12 Apr 07

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My son has just made my day ,,Bless Him

weemam @weemam (13372) 10 Apr 07

I was feeling a wee bit down this morning ( family problems )it's nor really like me to be down, and Ross went out saying he was going to the library, I got on with my washing and general tidying up, he came back half an hour...

a big kid

happy feet

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suju15 The feeling down phase does come into everyones life now n then.The best thing is to snap out of it as soon as you can.Main thing is to achieve a happy frame of mind. Do whatever makes you happy n feel light hearted. I wish all children would think of...

10 Apr 07

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Will you do something for the begger on the roadside?

freebreathing @freebreathing (419) • China 4 Apr 07

For many times i have come across beggars in the street. They try different means to earn for their living. Some play a instrument, some disabled ones just lie there or kneel there with a bowl in front of them. I feel pity for...

beggar

society

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suju15 While walking on a footover bridge, I saw a line of beggars, sitting with desolate expressions, such that they actually, touched my conscious, as to why God made these terrible discrepancies in life. I tipped each one of them, and prayed to God that night for...

10 Apr 07

Write your motivation Quota for Life..!!!

Monsun @Monsun (71) • India 6 Feb 07

Some time life just throws you as so unwanted. How do u motivate urself ? Write your motivation Quota for Life..!!! Mine is *Attitude is Everything*

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suju15 Be happy forever, for only then you smile n life smiles with you.

8 Feb 07