do u expect ur wife to b virgin before marriage

I dont think it is fair, if someone is not a virgin himself, then is it not unfair to have a wrong expectation....And by the way if u really love someone how does it matter whether she is a virgin or not....I dont think somebody's past shd matter to the present

having affair is different..and being virgin is diff.... of course any husband expects his wife to be a virgin befo marraige....

ya i will expect my wife to be virgin befor marriage..i dont want to handle asecond hand wife

yes i expect my wife to be a virgin before marriage, since i am a virgin.but it is not fair to demand for a virgin for marriage after having several affairs before marriage.

Sir, I am a person of hidu oigin whee people support the wife should be virgin befoe marriage. OK I too accept. but The wife also has equal right to expect that her husnband shold have no affairs before marriage. But why the converse is not happening in the society....?Because it is dominated by males?

every person is different, and we are all the product of our past experiences

No, I don't cause I think anything happended before we met was difference from after we met.....is fair that if both have some affairs before meeting but surely it can't be happended anymore after been together or get married otherwise is not fair/unfaithful to the other party.

ya expect them to be virgin...

thats wrong but a virgin person has all rights to expect his spouse to be a virgin before marriage

definately an experienced onewife a virgin..i am not too

I am assuming you just mean had several partners not affairs. If I was in ove then it would not matter so long as they are not infected with any std's. I think that it would be nice but it is so rare now days that it would be hard to find. Besides you fall in love with people not based on theri past so accept them as they are now.

I dun want to lose my virginity before marriage...but that's only cos that's what I believe and prefer...I hate double standards!!!why is the topic particulary about ladies????don't the gentlemen lose their virginity most of the time outside marriage!!!the topic is so sexist!!well I personaly wun judge the person I am gonna marry according if they are virgin or not cos that's not really what matters!

Sir, I am a person of hindu origin where people support that wife should be virgin befoe marriage. OK I too accept, but the wife also has equal right to expect that her husnband shold have no affairs before marriage....!Why this is not true in the society? Because it is dominated by men?

In today's society, it is not fair for a man to expect his wife to be a virgin. It may be a pleasant surprise, but I don't think it's a requirement. This is a subject that must be talked about before a marriage. Being with one person for your entire life can be a wonderful thing. But if you love someone - you take them as is.

I think it very stupid for men to expect his wife to be virgin these days. Im sure there are girls keep their virginity until they get married but if the husband want his wife to be virgin, I think he should be virgin too.

Yeah i expect my wife 2 b a virgin.

yes

well..i do prefer her to be a virgin before i marry her..but in the fast modern lief that we have today it is pretty lame to expect something like tat to happen..wat i would expect from her is to be faithful to me after ve get married..tat is all i can demand right now..

yaa.... thats my kind of lady

i dont think i would