What would you do?
By dra3333
@dra3333 (14)
United States
September 23, 2006 6:22pm CST
Situation: You are dating someone who is suppose to be divorced. after being with him for 2 months and have feelings for this person they tell you they arn't divorced just seperated and that the person they are married to wants to get back together with him and so he does. after not talking to the person for a month in a half they email you out of the blue and want to get back together with you. Do you give it a second shot?
4 responses
@Aali311 (6112)
• United States
24 Sep 06
No way, why what if in another month he decides to go back to his ex again. I think he needs to grow up and act like a man, instead of being selfish and immature. You need to be with someone who really cares about you enough to be honest with you from the begining.
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@rbevan (307)
• United States
21 Nov 06
I was in the same situation...except I was the one who was married. I did go back to my husband because I loved hime and because we were married - I wanted it to work. 6 months later I left him...The guy I was dating inbetween actually took me back. We are very happy now!
I would say wait - it take a long time to get over a marriage. He should be alone for a little before he rushes into a relationship.
@kstanley7 (1171)
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24 Sep 06
if it was me that was in that situation I think I'd go to a shrink and get my head examined for even thinking about giving it a second shot, how do you know he's not gonna do the same thing again ???
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
13 Oct 06
No way until you knew for certain that he was divorced.
It is well accepted that after a marriage break-up, people go through a grieving process and that takes time. To start a new relationship is not a good idea as it is often on the rebound and so someone else is hurt. If you take him back, that will be what happens to you so nip it in the bud now.
