About man's behaviour

coward - coward
Indonesia
December 20, 2006 2:05pm CST
What do you think about a man who don't have any courage to tell his feelings to the woman that he in love with?A coward?Or maybe his love is a things that he enjoy by himself in his mind?I think a kind of man like that is self fish. What do you think?
2 responses
@gigarange (1165)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Some men don't express their feelings to the woman they love because of FEAR of rejection. I don't think keeping it to himself is something he enjoyed because I think it is a torture inside him that he can't even express it. I can't call him selfish because whatever his reason is, he probably thought it is the best thing to do. So let's let him be him :)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 07
But how if the woman they love have some feelings for him too? I think it's a torture too to wait something that uncertain. You know that woman can't do it first, it's a man job to tell about their feeling first..it's a nature. But, if the love not connected yet,..maybe it's a great lesson in life for each of them
@Jaytech (2251)
14 Jan 07
Sorry, but I disagree that it's the man's job, we live in a modern world of equality. Why shouldn't the woman be able to make the first move?
@Jaytech (2251)
14 Jan 07
It isn't selfish really, I'm really shy for example, & I get scared of rejection, so would rather admire her from afar, if I'm lucky enough that she tells me she feels the same, then I tell them. Maybe I'm a coward? I'm not really sure, but I just find it difficult, it's a fear thing, it isn't meant to be selfish.