parents or lover ..whom do u choose
By mryazali
@mryazali (286)
India
September 24, 2006 12:50pm CST
ur parents or ur true love
if u need to choose one among them
whom will u prefer ??
14 responses
@baileysgurl2005 (144)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Neither, because if your parents truely love you and your other hald truely loves you. Then there would be no reason to choose, both sides would love you enough NOT to put you into that position.
@cajunmomma (624)
• United States
27 Sep 06
I had a hard time answering this one. I thought about it, but I chose my parents and now I regret it. I am now married to a guy I love, but I am not as in love with him like I am my ex.
@queeny86 (60)
• Romania
27 Sep 06
Depend who don't like who... your parents don't like him? or he don't like yor parents? In first case you must make your parrent to understand you if they love you so much, and they have the obligation to respect you choises, and if not come with the argument "If i listen bought of you, and i distroy my love caz' of you, then who will pay for my suffer, you?" , and in the seconm case if he love you so much he must not take care of your parrents, his obligation is to respect them this is all. If he can not pass this means that the loveis not strong enough.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
24 Sep 06
this has been the hardest question to answer. honestly, i've been trying to skip this question. but since i always bump into it, then, let me do some thinking...
i choose my parents! my parents had been there for me ever since i was born (even when i wasn't born yet...). they deserve my love, loyalty and forever affection. i can always find a man to love. but i can never find a new mom and dad! parents are irreplaceable!
@marvel3153 (125)
• India
24 Sep 06
my choice will chage as per the need of the hour..Am a good daughter and a better wife and wish to be the best individual ...who wish to be totally supportive and understading in any required role; without being unfair to any relatiion.
@restlessguy (812)
• India
25 Sep 06
I would try to bring a union betweent two.Parents i love so uch same wioth love.the best thing is to make the parents believe how much u nee your love.All parents aim is the welfare of their children.So if we are in a good relationship then i see no problem in convincing my parents.
@blessonje (1651)
• India
24 Sep 06
surely its my parents..because they love us so dearly more than wat we can offer any girl
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
25 Sep 06
EEE..I wish I never have to choose. I love both equally and with that place in my heart reserved for each which either cannot replace.
@sevenseas (754)
• United States
24 Sep 06
I think it would depend on the length and strength of the relationship I had with a female. If she is my wife, my responsibility is to be on her side no matter what. If it's only a female that I am dating, then I would be prone to put my parent's feelings first to a great extent.