things i hate about my husband

I don't like to use the term hate, but there are a few things that I really dislike about my husband. the first is that I wish he would take a more active roll in evrything pertaining to the inside of the house. He will do nothing unless I ask. No I don't mind doing most of the cleaning but sometimes it would be nice to have help. If I want him to do dishes or vacume or laundry or anything I have to ask him. The second is kind of the same thing only with our daughter. He does not take a very active roll in parenting and then he gets mad because our daughter does not view him as an autority figure. I have to ask him to help her with homework, make sure she takes a shower, makes sure she eats or anything. When she asks him something he always sends her to me. If he isn't going to act like an authority figure then he shouldn't get mad because she doesn't view him as one. I would love for him to quit smoking also. He smokes way to much and everything smells like smoke. I do smoke also and have tried to quit but it is so hard to quit when he is smoking in front of me. I know I could quit a lot easier if her were not smoking. I also prefer for there to be no smoking in the house and I have no problem with that but he always smokes in the house. Same with the car. At the very least I would love him to be more supportive of me quitting.