love after marriage is right or wrong?

@sapna1 (41)
India
December 23, 2006 3:46am CST
please tell me love after marrige is not right? but in my views i says love has no time when it is happens only god knows if you like some one else after marrige that is quite possible that he/she must have that qualities which we want, by that qualities we attract to those person, in my view it is not wrong, to love someone is good.you can control upon your eating habbits your another habits but i think it is very difficult to control on your feeligs it is not possible. please tell me because i am facing this type of situation and i m thinking i am right but my friend says that this not right please give me some suggestions so i can solve my problem am i right or wrong?
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59 responses
• Pakistan
23 Dec 06
You know it is wrong. If your marriage has failed and you have given it every chance then you need to get a divorce and end that relationship before you go and start up with someone else. It does not matter what kind of marriage you are in, no matter how you feel or do not feel about it, cheating is cheating so handle your business and face your marriage either fix it, or end.
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• Canada
23 Dec 06
You know it is wrong. If your marriage has failed and you have given it every chance then you need to get a divorce and end that relationship befor you go and start up with someone else. It does not matter what kind of marriage you are in, no matter how you feel or do not feel about it, cheating is cheating so handle your business and face your marriage either fix it, or end it. It's always necessary to make a clean break from the current relationship before pursuing the new one. What you are facing now is a conflict of the conscience. If you feel the marriage is beyond repair,call it quits and start afresh and with a clean conscience with the person in whom you are interested. If you stay in the marriage and pursue an extramarital relationship, it will be viewed as being morally wrong.
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• India
23 Dec 06
i think there is no point in living together when there is no love. so close ur eyes , b relaxed and than think what is right for u , and then decide
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@t3ChNo (31)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
i agree with your statement. love comes first before marriage. at least that's what i believe
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@anjuscor (1266)
• India
23 Dec 06
Why not. It is. If its true love, then you enjoy life and live happy being with your partner. Why do you think love has no time? Love always has time, but lovers dont. You need to make time for it. It doesnt make time for u.
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• India
23 Dec 06
Love after marraige wud possibly be becoz of of certain expectations unfulfilled... The whole concept of marraige i think i based on trust, if u trust ur partner in ur life, no love can ever enter in your life again...
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@jen20619 (1300)
• Ireland
23 Dec 06
i think love after marraige is right.if your not married anymore you are free to love someones else.when love has happened you shouldnt fight it .its the most natural and beatiful thing in the world.
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• India
27 Dec 06
love before marriage is b/w two hearts and after marriage is b/w life patterns.love after marriage 'll create some problems to u and ur family members.beware of that
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@sbobby (86)
• India
24 Dec 06
The discussion should be like love before marriage is right or wrong. Any how is most of the cases, there will be love after marriage.
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• Canada
24 Dec 06
I don't see any problem in it. But society thinks it is bad.
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@kyle930 (763)
• United States
24 Dec 06
I think the answer to your question depends on the individual
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@rsbrsb (217)
• India
27 Dec 06
but if harms to your married life,future of childrens than the love is wrong after marriage.
• India
24 Dec 06
LOVE AFTER MARRIAGE WILL MAKE THE LIFE VERY HAPPY
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@koustubh (62)
• India
24 Dec 06
If you love anyone after love than he should have that type of quality to love.
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• India
24 Dec 06
ya,what you said is right love has no time but love after marriage happens mainly becase of poor relationship between the couples.I mean if there is a lack of affection from those we are expecting or because of misuderstanding .so try to solve it or try to adjust yourself otherwise proceed with your new one...happy christmas and new year.....
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• India
26 Dec 06
You are right dear. LOve can happen any time and so you are free to love that person even though you are married but now you have to seriously think upon what you need to do coz here you need to choose between two. That is your husband or the person you love. Coz playing on both the sides will be a problem for you. ITs like putting one feet in one boat and another in other boat. the result will finally be you will fall. Thus choose the person from two. Be true and dont ditch anyone including you. Listen to what your heart says and take decisions thinking of each and every aspect of your decision on you, your husband and the people related to you. Take care
@Asimk12 (737)
• Pakistan
23 Dec 06
love - love
I belive that the true love will appeare after marriage and they never fall in love with their partners, before and after marriage.The concept of love after marriage is a beautiful feeling.Love after marriage starts only when you think the way your spouse think.Love after marriage becomes much deeper and sympathetic.
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• India
23 Dec 06
It is natural to like someone else after your marriage. It might be because you might have seen better qualities in him/her. So are you planning to marry that person? After sometime what if you feel interested in another person because he/she got better qualities? Will u marry that person also? I think it would be better to make your partner understand what you expect from him/her. If you can make your partner understand your problem then it would be the best thing to happen. Else you may end up in many other problems.
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@amithzepp (153)
• India
23 Dec 06
hey this is a nice topic
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@lovewaves (157)
• India
23 Dec 06
I am partially agree with that ...sometimes i feel marriage kills love and sometimes love need marriage.
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@openedone (240)
• France
23 Dec 06
so i think that love should be before not after , and i think that after marriage there's no love !
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@ronnique (35)
• United States
23 Dec 06
There is nothing wrong with falling in love again after a divorce.You just have to make sure you are in love first and second look at what you and this person have in common with each other . Third do you communicate with each other without yelling and shouting I personally feel love is a give and take relationship meaning the both of you have to give in order to recieve. the worse thing to do is go into another relatioship right after leaving a bad relationship.