Does anyone have trouble with bullys/bullying in their childs school?

no we have not experienced any such problems in school. if you cannot correct the problem , you can take your daughter to a psychatrist and teach her how to face these kind of problems boldly

Oh, I would be at the school board every time the darn doors opened. At my daughters school, they must wear uniforms which cuts out the "who has the best clothes?" deal. Allthough she is only in kendergarten..lol I dread when she gets in Jr and High School. I don't want her to be a "mean girl" either. I would never allow that, but would not let her be walked all over either.

Thank goodness neither one of my boys has ever had problems with bullies. They both seem happy with a few good friends. They don't seem to worry about being one of the popular kids and always being with the 'in' crowd. I think girls are more into that than boys.

My daughter was been bullied from as early as 5 years old she would be very upset from this and it was hard for me to even let her play in the front garden as they would target her and call her names .I done my best to stop it I told the parents.It took until she was 7 for the problem to fully go away.This year she hasnt been bullied at all.Im so glad its stopped.

I have problems in here, my city, Curitiba. My sister arent wareing the correct colors too.

i experienced that too. it was terrible. really sucks. i was not able to concentrate on my studies. i thought i was a nobody trying my best to be liked by everyone. man it sucks. i wanna forget the experience.. i think the best move is to the parents of the bullies.i believe communication is all it takes... goodluck.

This sort of bullying has been going on for years and years. There will always be that group of kids that has to taunt and hurt other kids just to make themselves feel superior. I went through all of it when i was in school and it's not fun. I dont want my kids to have to go through the same thing and I plan on teaching them to stand up for themselves no matter what!.... Parents need to start teaching their children to treat everyone with respect and that this kind of behavior wont be tolerated. People dont understand what kind of effect this emotional abuse can have on a child. I know first hand that it can have a long lasting effect. Im 29 years old and suffer a lot of depression and self esteem problems that I do think stems from what I was put through in school!

My Daughter used to have that Problem when she was at School and she went very quiet and that But in the End her Friends and her just started to ignore them I know it hurts your Daughter but she needs to ignore them and her and her Friends just have to stick together I think it is disgusting that the School is not doing anything about it It might be worth your While calling the School Authorities and talk to them about it I really hope it works out and that your Daughter can cope

i myself was a bullt at school

I think that you and her should get together with the other girls that are being bullied and their parents and talk to the principal about the situation first. If that doesn't work go to the school board. If you have them with you, you won't feel so powerless against their "friends" on the school board. Let them know you mean business and this crap had better stop.

My oldest is in kindergarden and so far there is a little girl who tells my child each day she is in their club, they next day she is outa nd the next she is back in. My child doesn't egt upset, its more irriating for me to hear about. I hope that as she gets older we don't have those problems.

Recently there's been much increased awareness of bullying in schools and whilst it may appear that bullying is on the increase, I suspect there's been little change in the amount of bullying that goes on in school. What has changed is that society is at last beginning to recognise just how vile bullying is and that the myths and misperceptions are just that - myths and misperceptions. Those who perpetuate these myths are choosing to be part of the problem, not the solution. It seems that children bully for a variety of reasons and when dealing with child bullying it's essential to identify who is the bully at the centre of the violence - there's usually one person who's the gang leader - and the reasons for bullying which include frustration - a child is impaired in some way and is frustrated and resentful because the source of their difficulty has not been identified - problems can include deafness, dyslexia, autism, allergy, being left-handed, undiagnosed PTSD or some unidentified learning difficulty - nevertheless the child is expected to perform at the level required by the school and no attempt is made to identify the source of the frustration the child is being bullied, the responsible adults have repeatedly failed in their duty of care, so the child slowly and reluctantly starts to exhibit aggressive behaviours because that's the only way to survive in this bullying-entrenched climate poor or no role model - the child has no role model at home, or a poor role model for one or both parents and has never had the opportunity to learn behaviour skills abuse at home - the child is being abused and is expressing their anger through bullying neglect at home - similar to abuse as the child's emotional and behavioural development is being retarded undue influence - the child has fallen in with the wrong crowd conduct disorder - the child has a conduct disorder, the precursor to antisocial, psychopathic or other personality disorder So who's responsible? I think it's important not to immediately blame individuals. And especially not teachers. There are a few bullying teachers (it's surprising how often these get promoted to positions of management), but most teachers are hard-working individuals who dedicate their lives to educating the next generation. The problem, as so often, lies further up the management chain. We all have a collective responsibility, and bullying is the result of a number of factors. I believe the way forward is to identify all the factors and especially the causes, then begin to modify our education system so that in 25 or 50 years time, bullying is no longer a problem. There are no quick fixes, by the way, although change, if properly implemented - and resourced and funded (smirk) - will start to bring dividends inside a year or two.

My brother had but later i cam e to know what a lie that he spoke of mosly he was bullying around other children in the class ... cahtting up with the techers and putting your child in teachers eyes wud really get some bullys scared

My little girl complains a lot of being teased and picked on by her peers. Shes overweight, but a beautiful child with a big heart and Iknow it hurts her feelings badly. I write my daughters teacher a letter, and it has not gotten any better thus far. I plan on going to the school board to see if it may help resolve the problem!

I wish that bullies would be rounded up and put in their own little school sometimes. Bullies are everywhere these days and I think that girls can be even worse in the way that they bully than boys. Teachers should be handling social issues and preventing this type of thing in the classroom-it interferes with everyone's right to learn in a comfortable environment. I would talk to the school principal or even higher up if the problem continues

i was a bully when i was kid and i'm not proud of it... i know what your daughter gets through during this period and it's really hard to deal with this kind of children.. scolding those bullies won't do enough.. i think you should report this to the school principal to take necessary actions..

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yes my kid is in class reception,he started saying that i will not go to the school b'coz big boys make me scared,on the lunch time they used to go in big class room there i do'nt know what happen/i told to his teacher also,and i make him understand that do'nt get scared to anyone

My brother had but later i cam e to know what a lie that he spoke of mosly he was bullying around other children in the class ... cahtting up with the techers and putting your child in teachers eyes wud really get some bullys scared

i dunt know as i was amogst d 1 who used 2 bully other... but ya v made sure v wouldnt hurt sum1s feelings n v did it jus 4 fun...