Why does not one reply to my topics

I personally have found that as I make more friends, I am getting more responses. I was having a similar situation, I thought my discussions were good, but the dumb discussions got lots of responses. It has gotten better this week as more people have gotten to know me. I try to respond to at least one friend discussion of each friend daily to encourage my friends. I do not do each one, because sometimes I do not know anything about the topic. From what I see my friends do the same. Another type of topic that gets lots of response is the controversial or hateful kind, but I try to stay out of those because they just make me feel bad or mad. Things will get better. Concentrate on respoonding to lots of people and a variety of topics. You will get more well known, and will get more responses yourself.

The reason is that your posts may actually require some thought an effort on the part of people to respond. This is a community that is supposed to be here for the sake of discussion. The more that I look throughout for quality discussions to join, the more I realize that the majority is here only for the money. Until we have a large group that is willing to stop responding to nonsense discussions and to report the abuse that is happening, we will not be able to have good quality discussions that may actually add to someone's well-being. We need to report abusers and give negative ratings to everyone who is working the system simply for monetary gain. And I call on myLot's administrators to start checking on the members who are over 5000 posts and are simply breaking all of the rules that are so clearly posted in the alerts.

Some posts take longer that others to reply back too, because of so many out there. But, I can assure you that all posts get answered in time, even months later. Your number by your name is the posts that you answered. You are doing a fine job, give it a little time to catch on dear. It will. If you are happy with me, would you please press the + next to the topic across from me? Thank you, and good luck. You will get responses.

I think it also depends on the day and the people signed in when you have your discussions posted. I found some days I will have TONS of hits...and another day I won't have any!!! Doesn't matter what the topic of discussion is.

tsk, tsk, don't be touchy dear. I looked through the discussions you've started and I don't see why you need to complain. There are lots of people replying to your discussions. Is this a ploy to get people to post a response?

I also have the same problem. feel free to add me up.. I think maybe because there are lot of discussions that some long discussions are ignored well, most of the peole here might really just want the money but I guess it can't be helped money is a necessity nowadays, can't blame em

I wish I could help, but its always changing here. Just do your best and try different things that you think might get their attention. Best of Luck

Some members are not also replying at my topicsm, but it is because many members are posting new topics every second, so our topic are sometimes not seen by everyone.

well, i think that it is all about the perceptions of different people. Different people will obvoiusly have different views about any topic. you may think that your discussions are meanigful and helpful however others might not. you can see that your this discussion is in the hot lists of discussions now. did you ever think that you will get so many responses for this discussion?? I would suggest that you must try to start discussions regarding curent affairs, topics which can be discussed upon globally and has lot of points to discuss upon and also discussions related to daily affairs.....

thanks you for bringing up this topic and i've given it a + rating. i too have been experiencing the same situation. thats why sometimes i just post dumb discussions so as to collect more responses. but i get the same results. its so discouraging to make an effort to come up with good discussions only to find out that it won't do any good result. i sometimes think that not everyone can be able to see my posts. that probably the posts are divided in different groups, that perhaps those users in my group are not so active compared to others. i know its a strange thought. but its because i likewise get strange results in here.

its not like that that u are the only one with such a problem my discussion topics als o get 0 responses but now its improving rite now i get atleast 2 to 3 responses so will improve in it best of luck to u too

I too have the same problem.I give good topics but the reply is 2 little for me.lets share and b friends .

I don't know pal, i face the Same problem myself.. :( maybe there aren't many ppl who know about our Discussions, so start making Friends as well..

well,my friend do not lose heart.I have resonded to you grudge.I think that a major chunk of users here still have not understood what exactly is this forum.I am very clear that it is discussion and debate rather than earning money.A lot has been said and told about earning money but you cannot earn loads of money in this when the rules are not clear.So forget about who is responding you and who is not.Learn,participate and let luck do the rest.If you think about money then u are going to crib as you will tend to reply and rply and rply but with no qualiy.I hope i have done justive to ur discussion.

I think the reason a lot of the most stupid topics get the most replies is because unfortunately there is a fair number of stupid people on here! They are basically just here to make a few cents and don't really care what rubbish they post in the process. If you look at some of the most stupid topics they usually only get one or two word responses.

hi my name is mohit, i am 20 year old guy, currently i am in third year pesuing my engineering in electrical and elecronics, i love music and playin all sorts of games seems this is 38th reply

I too face d same problem. I have many topics that have been unanswered. Anywayz u reply to my topics and i will reply urs.

I dont know why people do this!

Jus dont worry abt that..Its all natural , Actually its becoz if u give good tags then it will identified by many people and u get a good number of replies Thats all

I personaly try to respond to every discussion.Sorry to hear your not getting much responses .Im sure your discussions are a benefit to the MyLot community and if you feel thats how you will continue your discussions then I think you should go with what you believe in but if you want to change your topics to maybe recieve more sponses that might be something for you to think about.Good luck