Suggestions Please!!
By babyqueen
@babyqueen (39)
India
December 27, 2006 7:50am CST
My boyfriend, with whom I am totally devoted and committed has a sister, who has told lies against me to him. She thinks that I will ditch my boyfriend badly. My boyfriend has prosted against what she has told. He is a bit off from her. He doesnt call her up, but when she calls him, he speaks normally. He is very fond of her kids also. His sister thinks that I cannot tolerate her and she and her husband have come to my boyfriend's house in my absence. My boyfriend didnt hide it from me though. I am a very emotional person and I am very depressed about this fact. I have grown an adverse mentality towards her and cannot listen to her name even. It is out of fear from her. Am I wrong or right? What should be my behaviour towards her?
3 responses
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
30 Dec 06
Your boyfriend has to do something about the situation. He needs to be on your side. Try talking things out with him. Tell him your situation and your feelings about the issue. Be real open about how you feel. It's the only way. You cannot just let things pass by while you're already suffering from depression. If you want to continue on your relationship with him, then ask him to help you. It always takes two to tango. You cannot resolve the problem on your own. That's why you are in a relationship. So, you have someone to help you/carry you when you're tired. If you think that your boyfriend loves you then give him your trust by letting out your thoughts. Tell him what you expect from him and see if he can do them for you. he needs to act on the situation. You can't be just receiving all troubles that his sister's causing you.
@babyqueen (39)
• India
30 Dec 06
I do discuss things with him regarding this issue. I have already mentioned that he is a bit off from her but behaves normally with her when she calls him up.He wants me to be normal with her if she comes in front of me by any chance. I want him to let her know that whatever lies she has told against me to him, I am quite aware of that, but no such topics are raised in front of her.
@babyqueen (39)
• India
30 Dec 06
Yes you have very rightly put the things. I am really having a very committed lover and am very happy with him. I will really stop worrying about all stupid matters.
@yugi_sen (1741)
• India
27 Dec 06
if your boyfriends sister worries only about your honesty towards your boy friend then the marriage could be a best solution.
which will prove your innocence. but if she has a possessiveness on your boy friend then it is very hard to eliminate unless u understd your boyfriend and comprimise with his sisters attitude.
good luck
