Why are lesbians so crazy?

There are happy, joyous lesbians. It is sad that you had to suffer these bad experiences, but I hope you will find someone better, that fits well in your life.

Let me start by saying I am not a lesbian. :) I have lesbian friends and from what I can see they have struggled with identity issues most of their life. Hiding things from those around them until the day they declared they were lesbian. I believe that hiding and struggling with who they are makes for very mixed emotions and even trust issues making relationships difficult.

It's not just lesbians. Hell, I wish it was. Would havemade dating alot easier for me before I got married. But, I saw in a later post that you said you date men also, so you know they're just as crazy as women. The only advice I have is something an ex-boyfriend told me. After many bad relationships I was very suspicious of anyone new. I didn't trust them and made it pretty clear from the beginning. One day he said to me, basically, that you can't judge the new person on what the old one did. You never know, the next one might be Mr Right (or Ms Right). Funny thing is, he was right. The next guy was "Mr Right" and we've been together for 8 years and married for 6. All I can say is, for every crazy lesbian you meet, chalk it up to a learning experience. The next one may be "the one" or may be just another learning experience. But, if you never date the bad apples, you won't appreciate the right one as much.

I think that this problem is not exclusive with lesbians.

I think most people have their crazy side, Lesbians might had been unstable because of the pressure aournd them, you know how society looks them right? they feel very in need of someone's attention because thye are always looked at by people that they are scared, women who are afarid of commitments haha i can probably say i am one of them, whwnever a guy try to come and ask me to be his girl friend i really become cold and well the get freezed up and they give-up.. I just think that's its not yet the right time or else i might not take that person seriously, you know there are right time for things... hey i feel bad about being cold but it's my way of escaping a stuation like that .. :0)

Im not a lesbian, but I had a encounter with a friend who was, she was emotional, very high strung, and miserable alot of the time. People used to comment that it was because she wasnt living "right". I'm sure thats not why, but society is very down on things like that. I hope you find love, or a nice meaningful relationship. *online sites for dating is risky, be careful*

Well its most likely that they are pretty scared that they might be in love and might face the real responsibilities

Hi! Sounds like my luck when I was dating! I was a "bum magnet" until I fortunately met my hubby! There are a lot of messed up people in the world. I work for a dating website, so if you do end up deciding to join one, send me a private message and I'll give you the name privately. :-)

I dont know why lebians are going crazy!...Maybe they just need lot of attentions from the people around them!...They want to be recognized by other people and see them of who they really are!...

It appears to be aseer coincidence that you have come across lesbians who were crazy.I myself have met many good natured lesbians who enjoy the love tremendously and want babies also through marraige.that does mean that they are bisexuals.but, i have come across strict lesbians also who are enjoying the life normally without any problem.would you agree?

I have never known a lesbian. And so I have no idea how they behave and all. But the fact that you know through your experience that lesbians are crazy is downright throwing insults upon the lesbians. I love lesbians, because they are enjoying themselves. I think it's natural for them to get attracted among themselves. I would love to try to do with two girls some day, hopefully with lesbians. Would be fun trying threesome!

i`m not a lesbian, so i`m not crazy, LOL

We ddo exsist. My partner and I just celebrated 11 years. We have a son, house and car. And we used to have the pets as well. We lost all 3 this year. Hang in there. It always shows up when you aren't looking for it. I know that is a cliche, but it is so true.

Hi, I read your discussion. I am a lesbian in a relationship. I have had problems finding lesbian friends that are normal. I get so frustrated by this. Most of the women I have had experience with online have all been basically the same. I sometimes find myself more attracted to straight women than lesbians. I've read that gay men and lesbians often are depressed. I wonder if it's because they were in the closet too long and didn't live their life like they wanted to. I can see that being a cause of depression. But that's just my opinion. Anyway, I hope you find what you're looking for.

when it comes to lesbians i say THE CRAZYER THE BETTER!!!

homosexual in general are smart ,intelligent and social successuful to my knowledge

That is a stereotypical comment! Not ALL lesbians are crazy!

maybe they are afraid of falling and i mean really falling in love. sometimes if we get hurt we tend to release a lot fo negative energy and try to get back at other people.

not all lesbians are like that... a had a lots of friend who are lesbians but not all of them..and i am not also like that. maybe they love thier girlfriend so much...

hey the only reason behind is their mental instability......they dont trust people........they feel unsecured in the society and cant find the right way to follow