What would you do if you've been Cheated on?

How do you for sure know that you have only been cheated on once in your life, unless that was your only girlfriend ever. You may have been cheated on, just never knew. When people cheat, it's not worth it to get hung up over it. Sure it hurts, but only because you maybe were embarresed by this. If things weren't going great anyway, then you got the easy way out! I am sure that I have been cheated on, though none have ever admitted to it. But in the end it is for the best that you find out before you end up married with kids and getting divorced. There are so many people out there, so why waste time mulling over things that haven't worked out. Move onto the next. Life is too short to be sad.

I would never cheat. I would rather leave the guy than cheat on him. I won't tolerate cheating either. He cheats - he's gone. Plenty of fish in the sea. Besides, my man is spoiled in that regard and has no need to cheat.

love gives pain so I will just tell you dont fall in love and forget what all have had happened.

I think if you are not cool with sharing your girl then the door is the only way to go. Some people cheat just because it is thier nature, they are selfish and they don't think of others. They have no self control and/or lack a sense of morality. Others, however may be cheating because something is missing in the relationship that they might have recieved outside of the relationship. If you were not open to communication but her so called friend was then her bond with her friend grew stronger, this bond could have been with you if you would have taken the time to listen. Lastly it could be because something about the relationship or the way she was being treated was hurting her and she was trying to put distance between her and you in an emotional way. She wanted to leave but sharing her heart would make the sting easier. It is hard to break up with someone you love. Maybe she just wanted to break up and she didn't know how to tell you so she just fooled around and 'let' you find out. This is the most immature thing but it happens. Whatever the reason, after the damage is done you can never get that trust back ever, even after years. You would have been suspicious of every male in her life that was not related to her. It is not the grounds for a relationship. Perhaps this is means for a new discussion, when if ever is fooling around on your mate...okay? Can you answer that?

i will just be in patience........

i will confront her in fornt of her friend your saying,i will tell all the things i made for a particular girl telling its not my lost its yours..

I have not been cheated on, or at least not that I know of, I'm sure I would be devasted if I was, it would be hard to trust again and I would want nothing to do with that person ever again, I hope with time you get over this terrible ordeal.

i think if i come to knwo that i have been cheated then i would like to cheat the same person again and would like to teach a lesson to that person.

I have been cheated on, and it hurts. I would end the relationship right away and never even think of taking him back! Once a cheater always a cheater. I'm sorry this happened to you.

everybody knows how much it hurts being cheted on..it was never that easy especially when you are so into your girl/guy..you will end up so depressed and unable to do the usual stuffs in life..Personally, it did happened to me.Everything in my life changed. I was so depressed for months. I was always going out with my close friends just to divert the pain that i've been experiencing..Lucky me, it did!...I found out that there are lots of people around me who really cares..my parents has been very supportive of me! and there is GOD! i always pray that someday i can truly forgive the guy..and now I'm finally moving on..it's a matter of forgiveness and searching for happiness.

luckily i havent faced such situation or you can say i fear from such situation so i use to avoid it anyway you might be feeling very uncomfortable with your breakup just go and mend up with her if you think she also love you and all this is mere a misunderstanding otherwise forget about it and start your life from new path gudluck

I had. My ex girlfriend cheated on me. Surprisingly, she cheated on me for 3-4 times. I cant believe that, since I trust her so much at that time. After I found out, we had a talk and I broke her up. She tried to get back to me, said sorry bla bla..but I could not trust her agian ever!!

Yes i have been through similar kind of situation. It really hurts. If you really love someone and the person breaks your trust, you are in a situation were you normaly dont know what to do.

You and your girlfriend are bricks. You need glue to be together. Trust is that glue. If the trust gets broken, then the glue cant stick, and you cant be together. Trust is the essence of the relationship, and for someone to break that trust in such a major way, then they do not deserve to be with you.

I have been cheated on in marriage. I was quite hurt and angry. I gave him one more chance. He did it again, and out the door he went, no more chances. I made a new life for myself. I now have a wonderful husband for 30 years who is faithful. I hope you heal soon, and someone more worthy of you will come into your life. Blessings.

i try to calm my self and tell myself that there is someone better then her in u r life may b later and try not to do any thing stupid

i would realize that it was my fault i was cheated on. if your significant other has reason to cheat on you, then you are obviously not doing something right.

well there is nothing to get sad upon. life is full of ups and downs. u should thank god that ur relation is over because in some cases , once u get serious it is not possible to break up even after knowing so much

I don't like cheat, neither be cheated nor cheat others. I hate that.

I would leave immediately. I would not stand around chastising them, I would not listen to them begging me not to go - I would just leave them, be single again, and lick my wounds while I recover and get on the market again.