DOES YOUR HUSBAND TELL YOU TO LOOSE WEIGHT?

@vstone (69)
United States
September 27, 2006 8:53pm CST
Are you going to listen to him or be happy with who you really are and do what you want?
13 responses
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
29 Sep 06
I am overweight and my husband constantly tells me how beautiful I am. If I say anything negative about my self he gets very angry. He once told me that he would love me the same whether I weighed 100 lbs or 800 lbs!
• United States
28 Sep 06
No my husband doesnt tell me this. I tell myself this since having the baby he reminds me she is going to be six months old and it takes time. I get fustrated ... and he supports me and helps me feel better.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
28 Sep 06
There are guys who want their wives to look smart, lovely. So they tell their wives to keep a watch on weight. There are some who genuinely concerned about overweight and they tell their wives to reduce the weight. Prevention is better than cure.
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
28 Sep 06
I always want to lose at least 10 pounds...but if openshis mouth he will be sufferring with me...he can lose a few himself..
@beatgirl (85)
• United States
28 Sep 06
Only if he wants to be the first to start.
@Si1234 (457)
• India
28 Sep 06
Yes. if he tells, you should loose the weight. That will make husband happy
• United States
28 Sep 06
My hubby feed me very good. He know that I need to gain weight and he is pretty good about what I like to eat and he think how I can gain some weight. I know I have to gain weight but I do feel very comfortable with my weight right now.
@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
28 Sep 06
No, In fact, my husband does the opposite. When I say that I think I'm too fat, I need to lose weight, he tells me I'm fine.
@tmakinc (135)
• United States
28 Sep 06
My husband has never told me to lose weight, but he has told me that I was getting chubby. Of course, I did ask him for his opinion and when I ask I want the truth, no matter how harsh it may sound. I don't think he would have told me if not asked. When we met ten years ago I was 110 lbs and very toned because I worked out constantly. Ten years, and two kids later, I weigh 125 and lost alot of my tone, because I work out less and my job requires me to sit most of the day. I don't want to lose weight, because now I have more of a figure, but I do want to get toned again. However, I want to do it for me not him. He doesn't complain, he tells me I still look beautiful, but I think it will make me feel better about myself.
28 Sep 06
If you're happy with who you are you should listen to nobody, of course unless there's health implications, and then you need to listen to your own body.
@1alyssa (758)
• United States
28 Sep 06
my husband wouldn't be my husband if he said something to me like that i want someone who is happy with me the way i am and if i am not good enough for him then he doesn't need me and i will be gone
@BELMCstar (1341)
• Australia
28 Sep 06
No. He did not tell me to LOSE weight, he just pointed out the health issues of being overweight. I see this as a sign that he loves me because he cares for me.
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
28 Sep 06
It`s the total opposite with us! I need to gain weight! 95 lbs