Love scale from 1 to 10
By budsr03
@budsr03 (2350)
Canada
January 1, 2007 1:40am CST
I believe love can be measured. I say this because my wife loves me more than I feel or show it to her. I also feel that my true soul mate is still out there waiting for me. Just plain selfish or what? I never want to hurt my wife in any way, and I feel I would give my life for her. She is thoughtful, caring, never selfish. Always puts her needs after others. I feel like a jerk because I want to love her with all my passion but I feel unable to. My thoughts also focus on being hopelessly, passionately and madly in love but it is with someone other than my wife. No one in particular. Any comments welcome. I must know anything please because it is starting to feel like tormenting and turmoil.
4 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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14 Jan 07
to me love can not be measured it is an absolute and a constant. I love my wife with the whole of my being, she is the mother of my children and my partner in being. If this is not how you feel my friend i feel you should talk to your wife, as in my mind you are living a lie and both you and your lady deserve more than this
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@emilieespino (963)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
I don't feel fit to give you advice, being separated myself, but I'll try ...
Unless there is a third party, your marriage could still be happy again.
I think you just need to go away for a nice vacation with your wife. Sometimes after many years of marriage we discover the spark is gone (too much familiarity?). Try to recall the past -- how you two met, how you felt for her the first time you dated, look at your old pictures together, etc. Or take up a hobby together. Might help bring back the passion. Be happy!
@samimkardar (828)
• United States
10 Jan 07
Impossible .... we can't measure the emotions. We just measure the things those have their limitations. If u can measure ur love, it means it is limited. But it is not possible to love someone with some limitations.
