Mom's Blame me for everything...

Tfusion, you are in the EXACT situation like me!!! serious, i'm not joking!!! everthing that goes wrong, it is MY fault. not my bro's It's very anoying isn't it? you really haven't done anything wrong, but yet you still get blamed for it. how to solve it? answer: don't know, I still have to find the answer myself. one thing I found, is that yelling back at them WON'T help, try to defend youself with arguements, for that glass case, i would have said: "Mum, i'm 100 metres from it and I really can't have done it, unless I have used magic, but there isn't magic in this world, right mum?? right??" oh well, that's what I do... I'll pray for you. (and myself) good luck!

That sounds so bad! Why don't you try and change the feeling of the situation by just walking up to your mother now and giving her a big hug and a big kiss! I'm sure it'll put a smile on her face and she'll feel so much better! Maybe you'll feel better too. Try it with your brother too! Good luck! kumiko xo

I am in the same position.... I always get banned from the computer for weeks on end!

May b u hv made such impression on ur moms mind bcz of ur past acts... if u did not do it as i say above...i never saw such a mom! try to convinse her with cool attitude...and talk her about this...and try to know the reason abt it all happenings... then response her.. i wish u all the best!

mom has rights to blame u ! do what ever she orders to do. have a respect towards ur mom. wah twould u do if ur mom blames u ?

If I was in the same situations, I would say "Mom, I swear that I didn't do that, otherwise I would lose my mother". But it's just a hypothesis. In fact, my mother doesn't match with me , but she never accuses me falsely.

you're not the only one.. it happens to us all the time.. I once was just surfing the Internet when my brother broke smth.. And h\she instantly cried: VLAD!!! What did you do?

well try to do counseling with her and tell her calmly that what she says and what u expect... theres always a way out... find it ...

Friend don't think like that moms are the one which love their children than anyone.You be good to her whatever she says because she is not going to lie with till the end friend after you got a job or you marreid it happens you may live her and go away somewhere.

OoOoO..I cant help you out there...As i have no clue how to handle that. I was thr youngest of 5 kids, and ended being an only child after my sister moved away :( But i do suggest sitting down with your mother and explain to her, that You didnt break the glass, and that you dont have the gameboy. Ask her why she assumes is you tha does everything, KWIM??

I don't know what to say.Maybe you should talk with her.

moms always look devils to us in dis age..bt its not true

hi ... i think ur mom is working right?.... if yes then this might have been because of her work tension..... since your the eldest she thinks that u will be responsible enough to take care of everything at home during her absence.... so firstly u try to give as much as love u can to your brother then move forward to your mom and express your feelings to her when she blames u for nothing.... tell her that your grown up and u can take care of anything and not to worry.....

mom will always blame u only... becuae u wll be the one who is concerned to her.... and she loves u only na thats why

I think it is tough for you having you mother blame you for everything. i think she has a bad impression of yu as she thinks you are the naughty one in the house and so she believes easily that you are one at fault not others. i think you can't change your situation overnight. I think you should try to love your mother and little brother. Give them both hugs and kisses espcially to your mother. And don't get into arguments with your mom or don't shout back at her or abuse anybody because that will show you in poor light and your mother's bad impression towards you will only harden. I think you genuinely need to be nice and good boy and do everything that is good boy is supoosed to do that will please his mother. like you study hard, help your mother with house work, clean your dishes, help your little brother with homework, and not abuse anybody and he healpful to everybody then when your friends, teachers,a nd neighbours, and your own family members everybody will prasie you, your mother will feel proud of you and she will change her opinion about you. but be patient and focussed as it will take time. good luck.

dont worry it happens just talk with ur mom y is she behaving like this way

I was in the similar situation a few years back, how I got out of it? I just let her blow steam on me, scream at me all she wants but I know I'm innocent. Don't bother defending yourself because your mom sounds unreasonable, just let her scream at you but don't feel bad if you haven't really done something wrong. Let her blame her blame you for everything that's her happiness, all you have to do is study hard, be the best in class or in sports, she'll realize one of these days that you're not as bad as she thinks you are.

Get lost. Get a Life. or you can choose to talk to your mom and ex[plain your side calmly.

You probably did something at one point that makes her not feel that she can trust you. You are, however, only 12. I think that having a thing like a play boy bunny next to your profice would make me be a caustious mother. :P I wish I had a suggestion for you. However, I know that if you love your family, when you are older things will get better. Just remember to continue to love and treat your family right, as hard as that may be!!!

i think it's bad.