Should we keep in touch with our Exes or cut ties ??

Ex's usually end up becomming really good friends. I say we should keep them in our lives (as long as the relationship did not end on a bad note).

Honestly it depends on the breakup and the individuals really...I've always tried to remain friends with majority of my ex's (not all though) because bottomline for me is this, there was something thre for us to be attracted to each other in the first place and end up dating so why lose the original friendship just because intimately it didnt work out..

I think maintaining a relationship is no harm even if its your ex, no matter if you were not able to go along but if its not that worse, a good friendship or a nice companionship can only soothes heart.

it depends to what type of ex she is. it happen to my bf that they met and they talked but the danger that i was worried about happened. the girl doesn't want to lose him. she is using the "friendship" term trying to seek any chances of them coming back together. she said that she is moving on but hey, in his celphone,i found out that she is doing what she had done before that makes our relationship chaotic. she is sending him messages as if she is trying him feel guilty of leaving her and coming back to me again. giving motives of she is waiting for their time to come back together again and that she's just giving me my time with him. sheesh! she's so confident to herself that no man would resist her! a vixen she is...

Walking away from your ex-girlfriend is not the good thing that you have done, you must have talk to her and if then you thinks that she is okay to be friend with you, then you should have also asked it, we should remain in contact with our exes because at one point of time in your life you have shared a good romantic life

I have not ex right now, but i can say that we should try to maintain contact with them. At one point of life you both were together so you should be in contact with each other, walking away is not the right choice

I am friends with many of my ex's .. .If you feel comfortable talking with her, go for it. The polite thing to do would have been to at least smile, say "hi" and keep walking. .at minimum. I don't think I could just turn and walk away.

I think it would be ok if you maintain the friendship that you used to have but that's it especially when you're in a relationship.. You're partner might question you why the sudden contact to him/her.. It's ok to talk sense with them but if want to have a connection back then make sure you're single.. There are just some people who don't get along with their exs after the break up that's why they keep it that way..

I have to admit I can be pretty harsh in that area and I have just cut the ties when I've split up with someone. To me, a part of that life is over and done with. I guess I'm just protecting myself from further hurt but not having them around. But then I guess the people I've dated so far are just not special enough to keep in contact with.