Friends

Germany
September 29, 2006 3:29am CST
2yrs ago one of my friends told me not to ever talk to her again. Not a day went by that I didnt think of her, but I managed not to contact her. Now She sent me a email saying she misses me and wants me to call. What do I do ?
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18 responses
@aparthy (13)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
It is a good thing that some one remembered you after two years. Now, what to do depends on what you have been doing during the last two years. It also depends on what she had been doing during this time. So, get close to her and find out. You know all about yourself. That is no problem to you. You can find out something about her from her and then decide what to do.... I hope it helps.......
• India
1 Oct 06
hey...go ahead and make it up..if ur her true friend..dont let this go! reply to her...
@matefork (277)
• Philippines
1 Oct 06
I would do exactly as she requested and see how things will turn out.
@BLesseDmiN (1072)
• Singapore
1 Oct 06
If you do treasure this friendship and feel that you still wanna be friends, then you should call her and see where it leads.. a lot of times it's about making that first move and your friend has already done that by emailing you.. try responding and see what happens.. if you don't, you will always be wondering =)
@Si1234 (457)
• India
1 Oct 06
Try to find out the root of problem. Call her and ask her the reason why did she behaved absurd 2 years back. You have nothing to loose
@Karinne (1220)
• Australia
1 Oct 06
Well things happen and people drift apart. My best friend and i drifted apart and i managed to track her down 5 years ago and to my suprise she had already had a little girl. So now we are best of friends and so are our children. Go ahead call her, what have you got to loose.
• United States
1 Oct 06
Well, we cant go back to the past so maybe you can try to forget what happened in the past and if you still want to be friend with her, it a good chance to call and start the new friendship, you never know what going to happen next!
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
1 Oct 06
I say meet with her..maybe she had an ephipany or just grew up...people change..give her a chance!
@slimfox (900)
• United States
1 Oct 06
give her a call..
@pterion (417)
• India
29 Sep 06
Its jus us stupid humans on this planet...ther is no point in not talking to her...its no huge deal...jus dont think too much into the matter...jus call n' talk.
@akash_ain (387)
• India
1 Oct 06
u must go and meet her.always remember MONEY LOSS NOTHING LOSS,LOVE LOSS SOMETHING LOSS BUT A FRIEND LOSS IS EVERYTHING LOSS....BEST OF LUCK........
@blazonvj (428)
• India
29 Sep 06
get in touch with her immedaitly..u miss her real bad ,right? then why wait man?..she is missing u too.... i'll say ur too dumb ,if u waste any more time thinking about it.!
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
1 Oct 06
My best friend and I have been friends for 17 years now (wow that makes me feel OLD!). A few years ago we got into an arguement and stopped speaking to each other. Finally, after a year and a half, her HUSBAND emailed me and said enough was enough and that we needed to start talking again. He told me that she was sorry for the things she said. I spent a year and a half missing my best friend! Missing having her to talk to about everything..just missing her always being there for me, but I was very bullheaded and wouldnt apologize, and I thought that she hated me and never wanted to talk to me again. I came to find out that she felt the same way that I did. She missed me and said she CRIED over our friendship splitting up..but she was bullheaded also, and she thought I hated her, too!...we ended up apologizing to each other and agreeing to put everything in the past. It took us only a few minutes to become best friends again! I couldnt thank her husband enough for taking that first step for her! If your friend wants to rekindle your friendship again then you shouldnt just give up. Atleast try to find out why she told you not to talk to her again and try to work things out. Good friends are hard to come by!
@SoCalVa (30)
• United States
1 Oct 06
I'd say....too bad, so sad! Just kidding. Two years was probably enough time to let her cool down and realize what a good friend you are. I'd say to give your relationship another shot. Good luck. Keep us updated.
@brentjh (677)
• Namibia
29 Sep 06
What happened that she did not want you to talk to her again?
@kstanley7 (1171)
29 Sep 06
if I was you I would remain in contact with her and see why the change of heart. You just never know :)
@psmohan (1877)
• India
29 Sep 06
Forget the past and re-start the friendship again. It is not at all harmful. This happens with friends.
@clintz15 (974)
• India
29 Sep 06
She got your email correctly right ? you definitely need to go and meet her ....... you don't get these type of chances everyday ..... what if you don't go and lose your friend for the rest of your life ???????? THINK ......