Should I forget abou her or should I go and tell her my true feelings
By mustafa9190
@mustafa9190 (118)
Philippines
January 3, 2007 7:04pm CST
I met this girl when I'm was a high school student. I never had a girl friend or having an Idea of it. But she really make me think of many wonderful things. She makes me complete. But now iam a college student and I did'nt even told her about my feeling for her. I tried to forget because I don't want to hope to much that she might loved me too. I keep telling to my self stop hoping for it but my heart keeps saying that I should go and find even its in the edge of the earth.
8 responses
@kittykitten08 (77)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
Hey dude.. Dont be scared. Letting out your feelings wont make you less a man! You are a grown up now and loving is normal. Talk to her and be a man! Let go of those hidden feelings, so that time wont come that you will keep on asking yourself with what if's and but's.. Just keep the friendship you shared and whatever the outcome is.. dont change the way you treat her as friends.
@jenbatres (799)
• United States
5 Jan 07
If you have had at least a decen friendship with her tell her. But if you don't know her that well don't tell her, instead take the time to get to know her better. IF you are far away use the computer to know her better first.
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@mustafa9190 (118)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
It's not that I don't know her very much. But I could tell you she is relly not that difficult to became a friend. She is very known to our school and she is really devotive to her religion. She does'nt have any enemies in our school and even our teachers is her own close friends. I could tell I never fall in love in a girl that she is'nt A type that you just see passing by she is like an enigma or what that we a TEST. A test if I could really love some one.
@simplegal (123)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
You can tell her your feelings you don't know maybe she likes you too. Don't waste time and don't be afraid to take risks. Positive or negative affect, learn to accept it.
@minsmins (162)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
Why dont you give your self a chance? By the way, have you done the first step? whats the level of your relationship? i suggest you start by befriending her. Good relationships start at friendship, with this, i guess you could assess if it is worth giving a chance right?
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@mustafa9190 (118)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
Well kind of think of we are freids but not that so close. I still trying to find her but still no luck
@Bytemi (1553)
• United States
4 Jan 07
I think that you should find her and tell her how you feel. If she completes you, then most likely, you will complete her also. Live life with no regrets! and in 3 years are you still going to be saying should I tell her? If so, find her, tell her and see what happens. Life is about chances.
@jonny_boy250 (11)
• Romania
5 Jan 07
you always must listening you heart . my opinion it is to tell your feelings to her . u will feel better if u make this.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
5 Jan 07
Complete your studies in college. And resume your friendship with the girl. Allow friendship to develop, and if you spend time with her as a friend, she will sence your deeper feelings. Show her you care with friendship first. The best relationships are founded on friendship first. Best wishes...
@harris24982 (530)
•
4 Jan 07
i think you should take a chance and try to find her
she may have the same sort of feelings for you
the worst she can say is no
i allways regret the women that i dident ask
